Missing it is to meet you better

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Some misses are for a better encounter; some parting is for a better reunion after a long separation. This sentence is often used to comfort one's temporarily lost heart, and at the same time it also motivates oneself to speed up the pace to see the person you want to see.

Yesterday, I happened to look through the circle of friends and learned that Teacher Zhou Guoping held a reader meeting in Nanjing. The feeling at that time was the same as missing Jacky Cheung's concert in 2016. Whenever I pass by something like this, sadness and loneliness will always pop up in my heart suddenly.

However, another voice told me at that time, since I missed it for the time being, why not create a better encounter?

2.

There once was a girl, and in everyone’s eyes, it was a love like a moth to a flame. However, she still pursued what she thought was love regardless of other people's comments, and ultimately ended up in vain. This is a reasonable and inevitable result that is expected.

During the time when she was in love, her friends felt that she seemed to have changed. The inadvertent smile while eating

The wandering eyes when walking, and the cautious and soft-spoken way she talks to her boyfriend, which makes the rest of us envious. When we spoke to her, we received only perfunctory and polite responses.

Just after everyone had fallen asleep peacefully, they chatted without any scruples, chatting and asking about their well-being. This was a love story they could never finish talking about. I hope someone asks you whether the porridge is warm, and someone wants to stand with you at dusk, probably it is them. An ordinary word can make her mouth curl up, and occasionally her boyfriend's jokes can make her laugh out loud.

Compared with ordinary love, love that is like lightning cannot withstand the polishing and test of life. Any kind of love that starts off with a bang will end up in a mediocre life, right? No matter how much you are attracted to each other or how pleasing you are to each other at first, when it comes to the pots, pans, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar in life, your shortcomings will change from recessive to explicit.

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Since they broke up, she has been crying every day, and her life seems to have lost the vitality it once had. We took turns trying to enlighten her, looking like we didn't care. However, we could sometimes hear her sobbing at night and see her eyes swollen when she got up the next day. Although she always explained that it was because she had insomnia and drank too much water at night.

Fortunately, she later learned English and passed the difficult days of studying stocks. She still loves to laugh as usual.

Do you dare to admit that your inability to let go of him actually contains an element of your unwillingness to admit defeat? Maybe this sentence awakened her, or maybe she truly realized the true meaning of when you come, I embrace you warmly, and when you leave, I send you off calmly.

In the past, I liked girls who love love heartily and are consistent in their love. After falling out of love, they will not use another love to soothe their inner pain, but will lick their wounds and heal without medicine.

Later, I discovered that the people around me who live happily are often those who know how to let go of the past and are not obsessed with memories. We always like to compete with the persistence that we think we have. You are unwilling to let go of a love that you have invested time and affection in so easily, but you don't know that your unwillingness is just your wishful thinking.

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Some people say that memories are like a hand-held suitcase that accompanies us all the way. We are all travelers. The suitcase is too small and time flies so it is inevitable that we will lose it. , There are too many things you can’t take away, and you always have to let go of what you can’t let go.

Rabindranath Tagore said that if you shed tears because you lose the sun, you will also lose the stars. We must believe that all misses and losses will definitely come back in another unexpected way.

While you are nostalgic for life, don’t forget to explore the beautiful life that is already there.