Zhihu, 30 great gods answer! Make your life suddenly enlightened (incisive)

What do you mean you've seen the world?

Enjoy the best and suffer the worst.

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What are your criteria for making friends?

A wise man from birth, a strong man after China's entry into WTO, or an ordinary person with normal sunshine.

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How to define "think clearly"?

"Think clearly" means that if something goes wrong in the future, you can only blame yourself and never complain about others.

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Does "Don't let the children lose at the starting line" make sense?

Comparing with others all one's life is the source of life tragedy.

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What can be done to improve the quality of life?

Throw things regularly.

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What did you want to know when you were young?

The inner feelings are more important than the outer truth.

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Is it more appropriate to study abroad with tuition or to travel around the world?

Without enough knowledge, even if you take Wan Li Road, you are just a postman.

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What is the perfect love in your heart?

There may be imperfections.

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How to make the world a better place?

Let yourself be better first.

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How can I be sure that the other person is someone who can accompany me for a lifetime?

Qian Zhongshu commented on Jiang Yang, who is regarded as an ideal marriage model: "I never thought about getting married before I met her; After being with her for so many years, I have never regretted marrying her; I never thought of marrying another woman. "

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How to refute "be realistic, this society is like this"?

Your world is you.

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What is your understanding of freedom?

The ability to say "no".

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Similarly, others are better than themselves. Why do you sometimes envy and sometimes worship?

Near will envy, far will worship; Those who can achieve it will be jealous, and those who can't achieve it will worship; People with conflicts of interest will be jealous, and people without conflicts of interest will worship.

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Why do most people respond "It's beautiful, what camera do you use" when they see a good photo? And when you see bad photos, you often joke that the photographer is poor?

People are used to attributing their own success to themselves, their own failure to the environment, others' success to the environment and their own failure to themselves.

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What skills can bring great help to people's lives after short-term study?

Praise others.

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How did you get out of the haze of life?

Take a few more steps

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How to achieve "no complaints"?

People who know themselves don't complain, and people who know life don't complain.

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What kind of people live the happiest life?

People who don't compare with others.

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Why should people work hard in this life?

Let yourself have the ability to reject others and let yourself have more control over life.

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How to strive to be a very powerful person?

As long as you bury your head in your own camp, naturally some people will be distracted and fall behind. In the end, you are naturally a very powerful person.

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Where is the dividing line between the first half and the second half?

At this moment.

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Is it reliable to start learning writing, English and music at the age of 30?

The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now.

23

What are the good ways to save money?

Before buying anything, please keep in mind the nine-character motto: you like it, you need it, and you are suitable for it (many things, including feelings).

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What behaviors are easy to offend others, but not easy to detect?

Treat others as one of our own.

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What behaviors are a waste of time?

Thinking without learning or skill, hesitating.

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If good people are not rewarded, why should we be good people?

We insist on one thing, not because it will be effective, but because we firmly believe that it is right. Javier

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What do you think of "when you are young, you need friends, not contacts"?

Communication without purpose is really touching.

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What are the examples of low emotional intelligence?

Respect strangers and be angry with your own people.

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What is the most exciting sentence for you?

You can't give the world to people who despise you.

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What are the reasons why you didn't believe it when you saw it, but you heard it after your own experience?

Never underestimate your ability and never overestimate your perseverance.