Are good people really not rewarded? Why do I never bully others, but others want to bully me? Why are men cheated by bad women? thank you

Your personality needs to change.

After all, boys rarely like girls with your personality. Even if there is a favorite, it is usually a secret love. . .

I won't talk to you. A cold appearance, withdrawn personality. Destined to be lonely.

Others bully you. To tell the truth, you haven't established a good relationship with others.

You look at others coldly all day. People will have a problem with you.

Many times people will think, why are you so dragging! What's with the cold face all day Are you cruel? )

Then when others see that they can suppress you, they suppress it.

The main reason is that your relationship with the people around you is not very harmonious.

Not that you gave up everything for others, you are a kind person.

What is good in your eyes may not be good in others' eyes. Just like fruit, everyone has different preferences. If you give something you like to others, and others don't like it, there will be contradictions. You will think, do you deliberately return this fruit to others knowing that others don't like it? Of course, you probably didn't mean it, but others will think so. . .

As you said, the situation is the same.

1, if you are chatting with people in the dormitory, suddenly you say that you are too noisy. What effect will it have? It must be two people yelling at one person. There are only three people in your dormitory. )

If others thank you for your kindness, you will feel that others are putting on airs. So what do you want others to do? Kneel down and say, "Please, don't rob me, okay?" Obviously, everything is self-evident!

3. People may inadvertently say, remind, or kindly ask, "Hurry up and pack your things. I am going to eat soon! "

So, none of what you said means that these two people are not good. . . Doesn't prove that you are excellent. . .

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foolish

Looks like you're okay with it.

I don't know when to refuse others, and I am also lacking in this respect. Generally, I won't refuse anyone in a dormitory. But I will refuse my classmates in other dormitories. Ha ha. . .

I can only say that you change slowly and practice slowly, mainly after the first time, you will gradually learn how to refuse others.

However, you really can't be kind. After all, hurting yourself is unfilial and the biggest sin in the traditional concept.

So change it slowly. Although I am not very good at rejecting others, I still know how to refuse. After all, this is not a natural thing. If you don't borrow anything from others or help others, you will be condemned by others. However, we don't need to do something we don't want to do. We are under no obligation to do it.

The premise of helping others is that you are happy.

Hehe, the next time someone asks you for help or borrows something, you just say, "Why?" . Then see what this man says. This is usually effective. Generally, others will say some compliments. Hmm. How interesting

So if you really don't want to help, just say you don't want to do it. Besides, others borrowed it from other places.

Others have nothing to be angry with you, but they are saying that if you don't lend me something, others will lend me something, so you don't have to borrow something from her. She won't be burdened psychologically. After all, someone helped her.

In fact, many times, what they do is really stupid. . .

Although, I've met the post-80s generation, they usually know that it's boring to walk away, and they won't run around you like flies. . . The main thing is to ignore them. Besides, they won't always show up. They just want to see you have a different expression. If you don't let them get the desired effect for a long time, they will think that there was no fun before, and they will find the next goal.

Of course, no one will bother you except those who want to make friends with you and your rival in love.

Everything is open-minded and optimistic, and it will be much better.

You brought her to you and said, "Where did I borrow it? If someone is willing to help her, then you can be happy for her. It turns out that she is not a person without friends.

Going home is going home? How can you let others ask if you don't go home? . . .

You don't have to listen to them when you get home. I should prefer to go home.

Nothing, so I often go home to have a look. Mom really misses you.

Haha's laughter ..