According to the survey: What can a man with good character do only after breaking up?

"He is really a scumbag. I misjudged him before!" said my best friend Xiaohong with an angry look on her face.

Just a week ago, she broke up with her boyfriend of 3 years. This news was a bit unexpected for us. They used to be very loving. Not only did they travel together, but they also often sent friends The last wave of circle shows made many singles burst into tears.

But now they actually broke up right away without any warning.

My best friend told me that they broke up because she saw no hope in him. She felt that a girl’s youth was the most precious and she didn’t want to waste it any more.

The reason why she called her ex-boyfriend a scumbag was entirely because that man slandered her everywhere after the breakup.

Whenever someone asked about the reason for their breakup, he would tell everyone with a melancholy look that it was because of financial problems. Because he was a poor boy and could not afford to buy a house and give a large gift, so Only then was he finally abandoned by his girlfriend of three years.

In this way, his best friend was molded into a money-worshiping girl, but she was really unwilling to do so. If she was really a money-worshiping girl, why did she give up three years of her youth for him?

People often say that character will be revealed after breaking up. This is not true at all. According to surveys, it is found that men with good character can only do these things "after breaking up"!

Maintain the grace that a man should have.

How can we maintain the demeanor that a man should have?

It's very simple. As a man with grace, he will neither complain everywhere like a resentful woman nor beg for reconciliation.

I want to know more about the former than many people. After some men break up with their girlfriends, they slander their girlfriends in front of friends and others, placing the blame for the breakup solely on their girlfriends. , and then portray yourself as a victim.

Such men are very excessive. Not only do they have no grace, but they also have no character. They don’t know what responsibilities they should have as a man. When falling in love with such a man, women will also fall deeply in love with them. Suffer from it, because no matter what the reason is why you broke up, you will eventually be molded into a scumbag by her.

As for the latter, many people must have encountered it. In most people's minds, men who still stalk their ex-girlfriends after breaking up are infatuated. In fact, this is not the case. Since If someone has decided to leave, then you just choose to let it go.

Your stalking may be a sign of infatuation for you, but for others it has already constituted harassment. Sometimes letting go happily is also a kind of fulfillment.

No contact, no interruption.

Some people say that two people who once loved each other deeply cannot be friends after breaking up. This is not true at all. It is precisely because two people once loved deeply that they cannot become friends. continue to get along with each other, because if they look at each other one more time, the old love will be ignited in their hearts.

A man with a truly good character will never continue to contact his ex after breaking up, because doing so is not only a way of not disturbing his ex, but also a kind of responsibility for the girl who appears later.

Perhaps not contacting him for a long time will make him feel very sad, but he will not change his mind because of this matter. He knows that since the two people have broken up, it means that they can never get back. In the past, since you can't go back, why do you continue to pester? Letting go easily may be the best result for them.

Some people are destined to be unable to stay together. In this case, let each of you withdraw from the other's life and live your own life with peace of mind. The so-called forgetting each other in the world is actually a kind of great love, even if he still loves you If he loves that person, he will not show it, but bury that person deep in his heart, because only in this way, he will not disturb the other person's life.

In some relationships, not disturbing is a noble manifestation.

Some men behave very narrowly after a breakup. They cannot completely withdraw from their ex-girlfriend's life. They occasionally do some earth-shattering things and even hurt their ex-girlfriend.

Such behavior is very undesirable. Now that we have broken up, just leave quietly, as if we have never met.

No revenge.

I once witnessed a terrible case in which a boy took revenge on his ex-girlfriend after breaking up. Whenever his ex-girlfriend got close to a man, he would appear immediately.

This happened many times until the girl completely disappeared from the city.

What he did was really excessive, and in his opinion, it all seemed natural.

He always feels that the relationship he has devoted for many years has been in vain. He feels that he has been betrayed by the girl, so he should not let the girl have a good life. He pesters her for no reason and even takes bad revenge on the girl. Behavior.

Breaking up depends on your character. Only people with bad character will retaliate against their ex-girlfriend. Even if they had some unpleasant past events, since the relationship is over, everything is over. This is the past. Don't let go, not only don't let others go, but also don't let yourself go.

For those men with good character, they will not hold on to the past. Maybe they are tortured in their hearts, but they will not retaliate against others because of it.

Don’t care.

When I was eating in a restaurant, I saw a couple breaking up. There was no roaring or crying, but they were just calm.

The man asked the girl to return to him every penny he had spent over the years, including gifts given during holidays and birthdays.

It can be seen that the girl has no hope for him, so she is not angry, but very calmly calculates every expense he has given over the years.

Some men are really weird. When they are in love, they pretend to be rich and are willing to buy girls this and that. However, when they break up, they behave very low-end. They ask girls to spend all their money. All the money was returned, but they never thought about the youth the girl wasted on them. Can they still afford it?

If you want to judge whether a man has excellent character, you can't look at how he dotes on his girlfriend, but how he behaves after breaking up with his girlfriend.

Men may put on various disguises when they are in love, but after the relationship ends, they will definitely reveal their true colors, and at this time they are the most authentic.

Only men with good character can do the above points after a breakup. If there is such a man in your life, please cherish it. Even being friends is very worthwhile.