100 humorous chat topics, 100 times more interesting than what you are doing

If you have the following problems:

If you don’t know how to chat, you often can’t find the topic; you run out of things to talk about!

If you break up and want to save your love and pursue the other person;

If you have someone you like but don’t know how to pursue her or ask her (him) out?

Next, I will tell you the three most practical chat methods to win the other person’s love instantly! (Read slowly, the focus is later!) Elementary chatting method: - "Induced chatting method"

To put it bluntly, if you want to learn how to chat well, you must first learn to "close up" Mouth".

Many people, especially boys, have a deep misunderstanding about chatting:

“If you think you know everything and can talk eloquently, then you can’t talk to girls. Chatting will definitely be no problem."

The result? When you are chatting with girls, you become an "annoying chatterbox". You chat about random things. When you meet a girl with a good temper, you will echo an emoticon or a modal word. When you meet a girl with a bad temper, you will directly Give you a smile or don't reply at all.

Why is this happening?

Because the "fun" you feel when chatting is all based on the other person's tastelessness. You don't know what the other person wants to talk about, and you can't grasp the other person's emotional points. You feel like you are just chatting. In the eyes of the other party, you are just talking nonsense.

For boys with this kind of jumping thinking, if you constantly throw topics that make them indifferent to each other, the other party will use their brain cells to answer you. If the other person is not interested in you at all, this awkward chat method will cause the other person great psychological discomfort.

Therefore, the "Induced Chat Method" chat method allows you to be a "listener" in the chat, transfer the initiative of the chat to the girl, and appropriately lead the topic according to the girl's emotions. Let girls feel interesting when chatting with you without being embarrassed.

For example:

① "Hi, snack food~" "How do you know?" "Because your circle of friends is full of delicious food, I really envy you for eating so much No one is fat~"

②"Hi~I haven't seen you in the restaurant for a long time" "Hey, I have no appetite recently" "What's the matter, are you worried about anything recently?"

③"I have recently raised a cat, and I want to ask you something." "How did you know that I also have a cat?" "Seeing that there are kitten ornaments on your desk, I guess you He must be a competent shit shovel~" Remember: extract the topics that the girl wants to talk about from the information points she has. At the same time, you can make reasonable guesses to induce more information points from the other party.

At this time, it doesn’t matter whether you guessed correctly or not, because your opening remarks have already induced the other party’s desire to chat. If you guessed correctly, the conversation will continue with you. If you guessed wrong, it will not matter. I will explain the reason to you with a smile.

You cannot forcefully lead the pace of the chat. Instead, you can induce the answer through an easy topic. This will not reveal your strong purpose of chatting, but also stimulate the other party to chat with you. The desire to go down. Intermediate chatting method: - "Need Sense Capturing Method"

What is the main thing we talk about when we chat? What kind of person can make us have a lasting desire to chat?

In fact, when people chat and socialize, it is actually a two-way transmission process of needs. The reason why we are willing to chat with someone who understands us is not only because it is comfortable to chat, but also because this person can meet our emotional needs.

Many times, even though we don’t pay attention to every word we say in social interactions, every word we say with information is actually conveying our sense of need to our social partners.

For example, when a girl says to you, "How annoying, that colleague next to me is slandering me behind my back?" How do you respond? To comfort her and be more generous? Or tell me "there are some things you don't need to take to heart"?

In fact, it is not the case. When a girl complains to you, her needs actually come from "wanting to find someone who can stand in the same camp as herself." She needs her emotions to be comforted, and she also needs her needs to be met by you.

Correct answer:

"It's true that ugly people often make mischief. She is jealous of your ability, so she always slanders you like this!"

Let's take another example of a girl. Say to you "It's a bit cold after get off work at night, so I brought a black coat."

Correct answer:

You are such a clever little guy, I noticed your clothes today , my sister also has a similar dress, but it’s not as good-looking as the one you wear.

Therefore, when chatting with the other party, don’t always be used to replying to the other party with your own inertial thinking. Instead, ask yourself a few "whys" in your mind. Why does she talk about this topic at this time? Why did he suddenly change his tone now? Put yourself in the other person's mind and consider the motives for speaking, and many chat problems will be easily solved. Advanced chat method: intermediate and deep level chat advancement!

How can you quickly get into the other person’s heart?

Many people have this doubt. You have been chatting with the other person for a while, but your relationship has not progressed. It is neither cold nor hot, and the other person's attitude is also lukewarm!

Why does this happen? When you are chatting, the topic stays on simple meals and work. As a result, the other party just treats you as an ordinary friend and has no other ideas, making it difficult for you to get into her heart.

A good solution is to learn to broaden the depth of the topic when chatting. For example, the topic of getting off work can be extended to hobbies. The topic of eating and drinking can be extended to a friend's broken love, and further talk about your relationship with her and your attitude and views on relationships.

It is important to learn to express your thoughts during the chat, learn to associate and tell your own experiences, and learn to joke appropriately with the other person. This will not only make your chat more fulfilling and interesting, but also better open up the other party's chat box, which is very conducive to deepening the chat topic!

In general, there are three main points for a good chat method:

Be a good listener and capture the other party’s wishes from the chat message.

Be a person who is good at discovering needs and perceive the other person’s emotions from the chat topics.

Be a thoughtful and opinionated person, learn to constantly expand the depth of the topic, and quickly bring the relationship between two people closer!

When you deeply internalize the above three points and use them for yourself, then why do you have to chat without words?