What does it mean for a mother to say to her child, "I won't want you if you do this again?"

This sentence has different meanings in different situations.

If the child is clamoring to buy toys, this sentence means that the mother will not buy toys for the child, and the child will either choose to stay in the place where the toys are sold or abandon the toys and choose to go with his mother; If the child is not enterprising and neglects his studies all day, this sentence means that the mother wants the child to wake up and stop doing nothing.

In either case, this sentence means that the mother wants her child to do the opposite.

Children's thoughts are still immature, and they are easily attracted by the colorful world outside, and their behaviors are also prone to deviation. When children make some unreasonable behaviors, parents usually persuade others first, but how can children understand these truths? They only care about whether their needs are met. In this case, parents really can't communicate with their children, so they can only threaten their children to do a multiple-choice question in the simplest and rudest way: either, meet your wishes and you are no longer my child; Either, give up your wish, you are still my child.

Although this method is a little rough, it is still very useful in the early stage, and it has been tried and tested for some timid children. However, I really don't recommend that parents always give their children this threatening education, which will make them feel insecure and become timid, for fear that their parents will not want him today or tomorrow. Family should be a shelter from the wind, not a dangerous ocean; What children need is correct educational guidance, not compromise under threat.

We have all grown up, and so have our parents. As a parent, I can understand children and set an example for them. As a human being, you should also sympathize with and be grateful to your parents. In this way, our ears will not hear the words "I don't want you", and we will be happier.