Learn to shut up and don’t let what you say become someone else’s talking point.

For people who like to complain, if the things they say are not sensitive, it’s not too bad.

The worst thing is that there is a kind of person who likes to complain but has no sense of proportion.

A while ago, a female friend broke up with her. Originally, she and her boyfriend were a loving couple and were highly regarded by people around them.

I happened to know that boy, so I sent him a private message to ask why.

The boy replied: "Every time we have a conflict, she can't help but confide in others. Forget about confiding in two close friends, she almost talks to everyone, even when the relationship is not very good. I also said it in front of my college roommates. "I don't want the details of our relationship to become a topic of conversation for others." When I was a child, a lot of things happened at home. Mom said it would be a joke to tell outsiders. "

I didn't understand it at the time. I only vaguely knew that my father was telling me to shut up.

As I grow older and more experienced, I gradually understand the profound meaning of my father’s words, which are similar to what the boy above said.

Try not to talk to others about matters that involve the privacy of yourself, others or your family; if you really feel uncomfortable, just talk to one or two reliable close friends.

If you are like a girl who was broken up and don’t understand the rules and talk everywhere, what else can you get except the instant pleasure of letting it out?

It is very likely that you have just finished talking. , as soon as you turn around, your words become the topic of conversation for others.

Published by the public, a lot of private information was nakedly exposed in the sun and criticized by everyone.

It’s not that I don’t believe in human nature, but the best way is to learn to shut up and prevent the possibility of things spreading from the source.

When people live in the world, they must be measured.

Some things can be said, some things need not be said, and some things cannot be said at all.