How to coax children to stop crying quickly?

How to coax children to stop crying quickly?

I'm Bao Ma. My baby is six and a half years old now. I've been taking care of it all by myself and never left my side. My body has been abnormal since I was pregnant, but I asked my elders and experienced people around me, and they all said it was normal, just after giving birth, but after giving birth, my body completely collapsed, almost hemiplegia. I looked everywhere, but nothing came of it. It is very difficult to take care of a baby with such a body. Every time I change diapers, I put the baby on the bed. I put a small bench in front of the bed and began to change. Every time you change diapers, you have to rest two or three times, about three minutes each time, before you can finish changing. So is changing clothes. I take a shower with Bao's help, because my waist and legs are tired and I can't bend. After giving birth to a baby for a month, I barely got up. I had to struggle for a long time. I can't turn over for half a year. I dare not jump for two years. Usually I just walk carefully. It is impossible to go out to work. The old man is old and no one helps to take care of the baby. I drag myself to take care of myself.

Maybe God saw my pity and gave me a very clever baby! I brought up the children myself, and I really don't know how to coax them. My baby daughter has been very good since she was born in the second month. She seldom cries. She eats and sleeps during the day. She usually eats about four times during the day and twice at night. After the full moon, she never eats milk or cries at night. Usually after feeding at around 9: 00, she sleeps until 7: 00 to 8: 00 the next morning. She is obedient and easy to take. When she is hungry and wet, she hums casually, which is especially worry-free. So for me, except changing diapers, I can't hold her at other times. Usually she lies in bed and wakes up to play for a while before going to sleep. She always eats milk and gets some sleep during the day. She sometimes needs to buy things for more than two months. I let her sleep at home alone. As soon as the door was locked, I went to the supermarket. When she came back for a long time, she was still sleeping, and her small eyes didn't look like crying.

? In this way, I dragged my sick body to take care of her alone. Fortunately, she is really nice and doesn't torture people. She never gets up to eat and make trouble at night, otherwise I'll really go crazy. Occasionally, my mother will give me a hug. My mother said that children must be hungry at night, because they are too sleepy, so my mother gets up every night to feed the baby milk powder, and the baby closes his eyes and goes back to sleep after drinking. In this way, I dragged the sick person to take her to the age of three. Her father is busy working to make money, and her daughter is in perfect health. So far, she has never been to the hospital or taken medicine. She has never touched any medicine except that she needs to be vaccinated according to the national regulations. From the age of 1 1/2, she learned to eat without me, and she never had to be picky about it as others needed. My family has never been like this. If so, my body would have been tortured to death, and my daughter would be very smart if she obeyed. After I was two years old, I wanted to sleep during the day and was always busy doing things when I saw the outside. She never cries. She knows to take off her shoes and go to bed. Because the quilt was folded, she habitually pulled a pillow over her body. When I finished, I saw her sleeping soundly. At that time, I lived in the staff dormitory of the unit. My mother-in-law and the mothers upstairs and downstairs like my daughter very much. As long as they see me busy, she plays by herself. Sometimes in the morning, before she finishes eating, when she is hungry, she will take it out. Our washing machine is outside, and I wash clothes. She will go to bed by herself. The mother-in-law next door said that your child was there? I said I don't know. I think I'm going to bed. I was only two years old then. Mother-in-law dug the door to see. She came out and said that she envied you too much. Your baby is really good. People sleep on their own pillows. If only my granddaughter were half obedient to you.

I told you, God has mercy on me! When I was more than two years old, I turned over at night. She fell asleep and instinctively reached out to help me with my back. At first I thought she didn't mean it. I continued to turn, and she reached out again, touching me to death every night. I think she is very sensible and particularly distressed. Sometimes I wish she would cry and make a scene. Give me a chance to coax her, because crying is the privilege of children. I go to kindergarten at the age of three and a half. I didn't cry the first day, but I quit the next day. I cried hysterically and hugged me tightly. I have been begging my mother to let me go with you. Don't leave me. You can't leave me, mom. I remember it vividly, because she never left and never really cried once. I cried too. I cried every day when I sent her that week, and I cried too. I have been wandering around the child and secretly saw her holding the window bar and looking in my direction. It will be all right in a week.

I'm in preschool now, and I'm going to the first grade in the second half of the year. I used to cry a few times occasionally, but I found that as long as I was louder than her, she stopped crying. Maybe when the TV turned up, she stopped crying. I don't know if this will work in someone else's house, but mine is easier to fool. When she wanted to cry at the age of two or three, I pretended to cry first and she stopped crying. I quickly got myself some paper and patted me on the back. Our bed is against the wall. She sleeps in the back. When she wants to drink water at night, she gets up in the dark, gets out of bed and drinks water on the table. Then she went to bed again. She knew that my body could not press, and she was afraid of pressing me, so she didn't turn over from me, but got out of bed and drank water from the other end. It is specially put before going to bed every night, and her heart is particularly soft. I cry more than she does. Instead, she tried to make me happy by painting or piling wood like a little adult.

Last year, our cat was given away and died. After she knew it, she was sad for a long time and began to cry every day when she thought of the kitten. Now I am a big girl. Although I brought her up single-handedly, I have never coaxed her, and she doesn't need me to coaxed her, so I must have no experience in coaxing children. Sometimes I see other mothers holding their children and rocking them to sleep. Some children want to sleep with their mothers, so I want to try. I also want to put my children to sleep or eat, so that they feel like real mothers. I don't think I am a mother at all. When I was a child, I never coaxed a child, never hugged my daughter, and rarely hugged her. Now that I have grown up, we don't look like mother and daughter, so I have no sense of accomplishment as a mother, and I have never enjoyed being a mother at all. I just want to feel it when I see others coaxing children. When I was 4 years old, I told her that my mother would sleep with you and let her coax you to sleep once. Don't be afraid, you can sleep well when your mother is around. She suddenly turned around and said, Mom, what's wrong with you today? It's weird. Go to sleep. I am sleepy. Will you stop fooling around? It was embarrassing in an instant. Now I think it's killing me. I really want to be a mother again and enjoy being a mother. Unfortunately, my physical condition does not allow me to have a second child. Otherwise, I want to be a mother again and experience the feeling of being a mother from the baby.