Is there a foolproof showdown after being betrayed?

As we said before, it's definitely not a long-term solution to submit to humiliation in the face of a man's betrayal, and a showdown is a necessary step for you. So how do you show your cards? What kind of preparation do you need? Collect it, maybe it will be useful in the future.

First of all, you have to think it over. What card do you have? Feelings, interests, children, fame, property, etc. How much do you weigh? I don't have enough cards in my hand and I'm in a hurry to spend money on teaching. I might as well not go. For example, some full-time wives don't even know how much money their husbands earn, and their feelings with their husbands are very general. What do you think he has in this situation? When you are too weak, men will look at you like a joke, and he can't take you seriously at all. Men are so realistic, if you don't have a card that can be hit at once, he can't compromise.

The second step is to choose the right time and place to expose the truth. You can't talk to him when he is busy, and you can't talk to him when there is no conclusive evidence, because he will definitely not admit it. Don't talk to him at home either. It's better to have a sense of ceremony and be more solemn.

The third step is to do a good job in psychological construction, but also to presuppose the male reaction. Most men will have some defensive behaviors when they are questioned by the original match, so you should predict his behavior and prepare in advance. There is a core principle here, and that is not to be biased by him. You should remember the purpose of your showdown, stick to your bottom line and put forward your own solution.

When a man finds that his sophistry is useless and you have chips in your hand, he will go back to the negotiating table. When deciding to end a relationship, men and women behave completely differently. Most men have no courage when they decide to leave. They are like turtles in a turtle shell. No matter how hysterical you are, he turns a blind eye.