Is it the best way for couples to spend money when they are in love?

Many people are interested in the economic problems of men and women falling in love. In fact, it is not long to pay unilaterally in love. Take the simplest consumption as an example, it is really not good for all boys to pay the bill.

Do boys have to pay for love?

That may not be true. If you pay unilaterally in love, even economically, love will become stale after a long time. Men's devotion in love may be influenced by traditional moral concepts since ancient times. Only by spending money on women can men show their dignity. Many people think that boys should pay for girls, otherwise they will be easily looked down upon and lose face, which is called pride and vanity. When boys pursue their favorite girls, in order to please each other and launch a fierce offensive, it is bound to be the first choice to invite them to dinner, spend money on things and give gifts during various dating processes, and it will become a habit after a long time. In fact, many boys are economically average and will insist on paying the bill unilaterally in love. Moreover, I think that only by constantly paying for each other in the relationship between the two sides can we show our viability and bear all the responsibilities, and we can show the dignity and charm of the so-called man.

In many occasions, such as eating, entertainment, shopping and so on. If you see a man paying the bill, everyone will take it for granted. If the woman always pays the bill, it will inevitably be said that this boy is suspected of eating soft rice. For some boys who have always been male chauvinist, this is very humiliating and the most unacceptable thing. In fact, love is both sides. Only by sharing responsibility and efforts for this relationship can we better maintain the stability of the relationship. If the man has been paying unilaterally, he will be very tired after a long time, not only economically, emotionally and psychologically. It doesn't mean that men shouldn't pay for women in the process of love, and AA system is unlikely to be too formatted, which may not be acceptable to both sides. But as a boy, we should also grasp the proportion and frequency of payment, what to spend, and guide girls to invest in this area. As a girl, we should put ourselves in each other's shoes and try to bear it with each other, so as to enhance our feelings.

Another point is that when boys and girls are in love, whoever is more active will invest more in the economy, which is also related to the economic conditions of both men and women. I remember my cousin's love in college for three years. It was a rich girl who raised him as a poor boy for four years and made him fat for nothing. When she decided to marry him after graduation, the girl hesitated about her cousin because of her menstruation, and finally left sadly. Therefore, both men and women should grasp a certain degree of discretion in economic investment and emotional investment. Nowadays, there are not many cases where men and women are in love and men pay the bill completely. The concept of love and morality of the younger generation has already broken the original consumption pattern. Girls are more and more willing to spend money on their loved ones, and even spend a lot of money on their boyfriends. When girls pay for boys, there is no so-called dignity, but more love and willingness to pay.

The best consumption pattern between lovers

1. All expenses shall be borne by one party.

The advantage of this way of spending money is that two people are together, one party bears all the expenses, and the other party enjoys it safely without worrying about money. This way also greatly satisfies those boys who love face. They can only show their masculine side, but the girls who associate with him should abide by his consumption habits and not touch his bottom line.

2. Both of them spend money.

Some girls don't like boys spending money for themselves, not because they are melodramatic, but because they are influenced by their own lifestyles. Moreover, two people are in love and have not yet reached the stage of marriage. Girls all have the psychology of not wanting to take advantage of petty gain. Therefore, if a boy invites her to dinner or a movie, she will reciprocate accordingly, such as Mei Mei. When two people pay for their own consumption together, maybe that boy will spend more money, which seems to be a loss. In fact, girls can see his efforts and love him more.

3. Two people adopt AA system.

This is a very popular way at present. For example, if two people share the money for eating and watching movies, there will be no embarrassment of who has more or less. Some people may not adapt at first. After all, our tradition is that men spend more money and women spend some or none. However, after a few more attempts, you will find that this will save you and the other party a lot of trouble, because no one will take advantage of anyone. The above is how most couples spend their money. No matter which way they spend their money, it is most appropriate for both of them to accept it. For couples, in the case of limited economic conditions, it is better to make it clear to each other, which I believe many people can accept. If TA says goodbye to you because of this kind of thing, don't lose heart, which means you are not suitable. Just keep looking for happiness.

Do men have to spend money to fall in love?

Not necessarily, two people have to pay each other. There are no rules, but boys must pay, and boys are not obliged to spend money. The most important thing for two people to be together is happiness. The party with good economic conditions can pay more money appropriately. Of course, there is no need to care who should spend more. It mainly depends on how two people decide. Spending money is not anyone's obligation, but a voluntary principle.

How do couples spend money?

How to give between lovers has always been a particularly controversial topic. Some men are just punching their faces and filling in fat people. He wants to make a good impression on girls, so he pretends to have money when he obviously has no money, and it is also very uncomfortable in private. Some people think that men and women are equal now, and the AA system is also an equal relationship between men and women in money, and they don't owe each other. Opponents think that since two people are in love, AA system is too impersonal. In many people's minds, men should earn money to support their families and pay more. But sometimes it's definitely not enough to just let boys spend money. If boys earn enough money to support all expenses, it's not a big problem. But if boys don't earn much money and girls don't want to spend their own money at all, then the relationship between lovers is prone to problems. As I said before, the complete AA system is definitely not good. After all, you are lovers, not partners. If two people want to solve everything with AA system, then in the end, one party must feel that the other party doesn't love themselves enough, or the other party cares about some small money, and the relationship will definitely break up.

In fact, the best way for couples to spend money should be for you to come and go, and two people to discuss together. After all, there are too many places where they need to spend money, and this question cannot be vague. Some girls don't like boys spending money for themselves, which is not that they are melodramatic, but that they are influenced by their own lifestyles. Moreover, two people are in love and have not yet reached the stage of marriage. Girls all have the psychology of not wanting to take advantage of petty gain. When two people pay for their own consumption together, maybe that boy will spend more money, which seems to be a loss. In fact, girls can see his efforts and love him more. Nowadays, many young couples who have a fixed relationship can also set up a love fund to jointly contribute and control, so as to establish a relatively AA consumption environment, which will not affect their mood and feelings because of spending money, but also help both sides to treat their feelings rationally.