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How can I improve my expressive and logical abilities?
1. Recognize the importance of language expression ability
Language expression ability is one of the basic qualities necessary for modern talents. In modern society, due to the rapid development of economy, people communicate with each other more and more frequently, and the importance of language expression ability is also increasing day by day. Good eloquence is increasingly regarded as an essential ability for modern people.
As modern people, we must not only have new ideas and insights, but also express them well in front of others; we must not only use our actions to contribute to society, but also use our own language to Infect and persuade others.
As far as careers are concerned, people from all walks of life in modern society need eloquence: for politicians and diplomats, being articulate and eloquent are basic qualities; business workers sell goods , attracting customers, and entrepreneurs running and managing enterprises all require eloquence. In people's daily interactions, people with eloquence talents can make plain topics very attractive, while people with clumsy tongues will sound boring to people even if the topics they talk about are very good. Some suggestions are passed by people with good eloquence as soon as they are spoken, while those with poor eloquence still cannot be approved even if they are spoken many times.
Dr. David Omen, former president of the American Medical Association, once said that we should try our best to develop the ability to allow others to enter our minds and hearts, to be able to be in front of others. , clearly convey your thoughts and ideas to others among the crowd and in front of the public. As we work hard and make continuous progress, we will find that our true self is creating an unprecedented image in people's minds, producing an unprecedented shock.
In short, language ability is the main way for us to improve our quality and develop our potential. It is a priceless treasure for us to control life, transform life and pursue career success. It is a necessary way to achieve success.
2. Test your own language quotient
Language quotient (LQ) refers to a person’s quotient of learning, understanding and mastering the ability to use language. Specifically, it refers to a person's language thinking ability, speaking ability and adaptability in language communication.
Language ability is not something people are born with, but a skill that people acquire through acquired learning. Although there are inherited genes or brain structural abnormalities, there are language advantages or language impairments. In real life, due to the different subjective and objective conditions, time spent and learning needs of each person, the speed and level of our ability to acquire language skills are also different. This shows that people's language intelligence ability mainly relies on acquired language training and language communication to be strengthened and improved.
Language is the most widely distributed and evenly distributed ability among human beings. Among various human intelligences, linguistic intelligence is listed as the first intelligence. Facts show that language plays an important role in a person's life and is a core factor in people's development of intellectual and social abilities.
For a long time, people have always thought that language is just a communication tool, and one must master it and use it skillfully. In fact, this understanding only starts from the communicative function of language. In the sense of the relationship between language and "speaker", language is a "multimedia" - it can be used both as a tool and as a reflection of mental ability. For example, when we are talking and we also need to express a meaning, some people will be able to express their ideas with witty words, while others will not be able to convey their meaning. This is the difference in mental abilities. If a person has excellent abilities in other aspects and his language skills are gradually improving, then he will definitely be better. Linguistic intelligence not only enables people to use their brains to think about problems, but also allows them to express their thoughts in language at any time. If we use accurate words, appropriate rhetoric, and beautiful pronunciation when we speak, we will be more comfortable in various tasks, our career will be more successful, and our life will be more colorful.
People's language communication and interpersonal communication skills are even more important in this increasingly competitive 21st century. Language quotient will bring us new survival opportunities and an all-round improvement in human quality.
We live in a world of spoken language. Language ability is an extremely important survival ability for everyone in life. The level of language communication is the level of language quotient ability. By taking the following test, we will have a grasp of our language quotient ability.
Chapter 4 Techniques for Developing Various Potentials of the Brain (1)
Section 21 Techniques for Developing Language Potential (2)
Test 1
Detection content
1. What impact do you think being able to speak has on a person’s life:
A. important.
B. generally.
C. unimportant.
2. When you talk to many people together, you will:
A. Sometimes add a few words.
B. Let others say that you are just a bystander.
C. Use your words wisely to increase others' impression of you.
3. In public *** situations, your performance is:
A. Very good at words.
B. Not good at words.
C. Ashamed to talk.
4. If a highly dependent friend calls to chat with you and you don’t have time to spend with him, you will:
A. Ask him if he has anything important. If not, call him later.
B. Tell him you are busy and can't chat with him.
C. Don't answer the phone.
5. Because a language mistake has had a bad impact on colleagues, you will:
A. Talk more.
B. Try your best to find opportunities to reverse the impact with good words and deeds.
C. Afraid to speak.
6. If someone tells you that someone said something bad about you, you will:
A. Beware of him at all times.
B. Also said bad things about him.
C. Take the initiative to talk to him.
7. At your friend's birthday party, you met your friend's classmate. When you saw him again:
A. I just said hello and passed by.
B. Call him by name and talk to him enthusiastically.
C. Chatted for a few words and left new contact information.
8. After your words are misunderstood by others, you will:
A. Be more understanding.
B. Ignore this question.
C. Stop talking to people.
Scoring criteria
1. Choose A, 2 points, choose B, 1 point, choose C, 0 points.
2. Choose A, 1 point, choose B, 0 points, choose C, 2 points.
3. Choose A, 2 points, choose B, 1 point, choose C, 0 points.
4. Choose A, 2 points, choose B, 1 point, choose C, 0 points.
5. Choose A, 0 points, choose B, 2 points, choose C, 1 point.
6. Choose A, 1 point, choose B, 0 points, choose C, 2 points.
7. Choose A, 0 points, choose B, 2 points, choose C, 1 point.
8. Choose A, 2 points, choose B, 1 point, choose C, 0 points.
Test analysis
A score between 0 and 5 indicates that your language quotient is low and your language expression and communication skills are still lacking. If your personality is too introverted, it will hinder the improvement of your language skills. You should try your best to change this situation, get out of your own small circle, have more contact with outsiders, look for some opportunities to communicate with others, and strive to cultivate your own Speech ability. Only in this way can you hope to become a popular person.
A score between 6 and 11 points indicates that your language quotient is good, and your language expression and communication skills are average. If you work harder, you can communicate with others freely. The magic weapon to improve your language skills is to take the initiative. This will enable you to win the initiative in language communication, and your language skills will naturally reach a new level. A score between 12 and 16 points indicates that your verbal intelligence is very high, you know how to express your emotions and thoughts, and you can understand and support others well. Whether you are a colleague or a friend, a superior or a subordinate, you can communicate with them. Maintain a good conversational relationship. It is worth noting: Never show off your communication and communication skills. Otherwise, others will think that you are deliberately trying to please others, which is very hypocritical. Especially for people who are not good at communicating with others, you must pay more attention to impress others with your sincerity. Only in this way can you maintain your good popularity for a long time and your language skills can be better expressed. high.
Next, there is a small test, let’s do it.
Chapter 4 Techniques for Developing Various Potentials of the Brain (1)
Section 22 Techniques for Developing Language Potential (3)
Test 2
Test content:
If someone interrupts you mid-sentence and changes the topic, you will:
A. Say no more.
B. Talk to the other person.
C. Please ask the other person not to interrupt.
D. Wait for him or her to finish speaking before continuing.
Test result:
Choose A.
It indicates that your language skills are too low. Being interrupted mid-sentence may feel like a sign of disrespect. You feel humiliated by such "treatment", but you won't argue with him immediately. You try your best to swallow the unfinished words, and hope that everyone will not notice you and treat it as if you didn't say anything. Your language quotient index at this time: *
Choose B.
It indicates that your language intelligence ability is low. You have an impatient personality and cannot tolerate others interrupting you at this time. Once you are treated unfairly, you will immediately "retaliate with tooth." This kind of personality does not seem to suffer in interpersonal interactions, but it will always give people the feeling of being sharp and make others stay away from you. In addition, this kind of personality can easily cause unnecessary disputes when talking to others. It is recommended that you strengthen training and quickly improve your language quotient. Your language quotient index at this time:**
Choose C.
Show that your language skills are good. But the disadvantage is that you are overbearing when you speak and do not allow others to interrupt or interrupt. Otherwise, you will never sit back and watch. You will warn the other person face to face and let the other party respect your right to speak. You are a self-centered person; you will do anything according to your own will without allowing others to interfere. Once someone interferes with you, you will correct them without mercy. Your verbal behavior shows that you are confident and have full courage and strength, but it is easy to conflict with the other party. You may wish to pay more attention to this. Your language quotient index at this time: ***
Choose D.
Show that you have high language skills and that you will handle any conflicts between you and others well. You are the kind of person who feels uncomfortable until you finish speaking. If someone disrespects you and interrupts you, you will not be angry. You will wait patiently for the other person to finish what they are saying before continuing. It can be seen that you are a very calm person. You can not only avoid the embarrassment of unfinished words, but also teach the other party a lesson. Your language quotient index at this time: ****
Through the above test, I believe we have some understanding of our language quotient. In the following reading, we will also learn how to improve it. There are many methods and techniques for language intelligence.
Chapter 4 Techniques for Developing Various Potentials of the Brain (1)
Section 23 Techniques for Developing Language Potential (4)
3. Rapidly Improve Language
People with high verbal quotients have extensive knowledge, flexible minds, strong judgment, and full confidence. Their speech is magnetic and attractive. At the same time, they can also speak freely in various conversation situations. Absolutely, win the respect and praise of others. If the reader did not perform very well in the above test, but would like to use his words to win the respect and praise of others in various conversation situations, he should remember and do the following nine points.
(1) Do not use colloquialisms when speaking. Commonly used idioms can hinder your ability to use the language freely.
(2) Use as many numbers as possible. Use more numbers when speaking, your language will be more vivid and persuasive, and you will be more confident.
(3) Watch more TV. TV is the most emotional source of language, but be careful: don’t just watch TV series, but watch more consulting and interview programs. This will allow you to better learn other people’s conversation skills.
(4) Train a sense of goal. Speech should be targeted, just like walking, you should have directional choices. This "choice" can prevent you from rambling in your speech.
(5)Learn some new languages. In your daily work and study, often learning and absorbing some new languages ??can better enrich your language vocabulary.
(6) Cultivate the spirit of inquiry.
In the process of studying and working, it is recommended that you strive to do it: either don’t do it, do it well if you do it, and constantly explore various laws in life. Whatever you do, you must know what it is and why it is so.
(7) Train judgment. This ability is crucial to language. When talking to others, if you make a mistake in judgment, you may give an answer that means the opposite, which may lead to unnecessary misunderstandings.
(8) Speak more powerful words. To speak with power means to be straightforward when speaking. If something works, it works, and if it doesn't, it doesn't work. For example: You'd better not say "I think..." "I think..." but try to say "I think..." so that your words are powerful enough.
(9) Talk to more people. You might as well try to expand your social circle and continuously increase your opportunities to speak, which will be more conducive to improving your ability to control the language.
4. To improve your language quotient, you should have six abilities.
If you want to improve your language quotient and become a language genius with high language quotient, you should also have the following six abilities.
1. The ability to listen
Listening is the basis of speaking. If you want to be able to speak, develop good habits of loving listening, listening more, and being good at listening, such as listening to more news, listening to speeches, listening to other people's speech, etc., so that you can obtain a large amount of rich information. After the brain integrates and refines this information, it will form a rich source of language wisdom. Develop the ability to listen and lay a solid foundation for developing the ability to speak.
2. The ability to see
Looking more can provide materials and examples for speaking more. You can watch movies, books, newspapers, TV programs with a lot of conversation, and you can also watch various vivid and touching scenes in real life. On the one hand, these methods can cultivate sentiments and enrich cultural life; on the other hand, they allow you to learn other people's speaking methods, techniques and content. Especially the dialogues of characters in movies, TV shows, dramas, and books and newspapers. They originate from life and are higher than life. They can provide examples for you to learn to speak.
3. The ability to memorize
Reciting can not only strengthen your memory, but also train you to develop a good sense of language. It may be suggested that you try to memorize more poems, aphorisms, proverbs, etc. They are rich in connotation and beautiful in text. If you memorize it more, you will not only be nourished and nurtured emotionally, but you will also slowly develop your own correct and vivid language.
4. The ability to think
Thinking is the only way to organize your thinking. In real life, many times it’s not that we don’t know how to speak, but that we don’t know how to think. If we can’t think clearly, we won’t be able to speak clearly. Before saying something or introducing a person, it is recommended that you think carefully about the time, place and process of the event, as well as the appearance and characteristics of the person. With more organized thinking, you can make your language more organized.
5. The ability to compile
Being able to compile and speak well is a sign of rich imagination and strong creativity. It is recommended that you develop a good habit of writing, which will have a positive effect on improving your language thinking and speaking abilities.
6. The ability to speak
Speaking is the highest expression of language expression ability. Only by speaking more will your language skills improve rapidly.
Chapter 4 Techniques for Developing Various Potentials of the Brain (1)
Section 24 Techniques for Developing Language Potential (5)
5. Condensed Talents It's better
To make your speech brief and your writing concise, you must learn to condense it. Condensation is the refining of language, and concentrated language is the essence of language.
Hundreds of years ago, a wise old king summoned a group of wise ministers and gave him a task: "I want you to compile a "Book of Wisdom" so that it can be passed down to future generations."
After these smart people left the old king, they began hard work. They spent a long time and finally completed a twelve-volume masterpiece. They gave the "Book of Wisdom" to the old king. After reading it, he said: "Dear ministers, I firmly believe that this is the crystallization of wisdom from all ages. However, it is too thick. I am worried that no one will read it to the end. Let's condense it!" This group of smart people worked hard for a long time, deleted a lot of content, and finally completed a volume. But the old king still thought it was too long and ordered them to continue concentrating.
This group of smart people condensed a book into a chapter, a page, a paragraph, and finally a sentence. When the old king saw this sentence, he was very happy and said: "My dear ministers, this is the crystallization of the wisdom of all ages.
If people everywhere knew this truth, most of the problems we have been worrying about could be successfully solved. ”
This classic saying is: “There is no free lunch in the world.” ”
This sentence warns people: Even to meet the most basic needs for one’s own survival, you must do it yourself; even if your ancestors and fathers can provide you with a rich material foundation, you still need to do it yourself. . Otherwise, you will only be in vain.
6. Four strategies for expanding your language quotient
To quickly and efficiently expand your language quotient, it is recommended that you follow the "Four Essentials". "Four Don'ts" strategy.
1. Be truthful and don't use rhetoric.
Speaking and doing things should be truthful. Don't blindly pursue the use of gorgeous words to decorate, let alone grandstand.
2. Be simple, don’t be pretentious
Avoid esoteric speech and try to use popular language, such as sayings, catch-phrases, humorous jokes, etc. In this way, you can get things done easily You may get twice the result with half the effort.
3. Be concise and not vague.
Speak concisely and clearly. Don’t make long, meaningless remarks, otherwise others will not understand you.
4. Be humble and don't "put on airs"
If you show "arrogance" in your words, the person listening will be very disgusted. In this way, you will not only express your feelings. Without the purpose of speaking, it will also affect the listener's mood. I hope you can remember: Humility is the speaker's virtue.
The above four points are summarized from the overall language expression. General methods, they are very helpful to expand your language intelligence.
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