I always feel that I have no brains when I am in love. Why do you say that liking someone will make you stupid?

It's not a joke that people in love will lose their IQ. Because no matter from the overall performance, or from some observations of friends around, people in love will have a certain degree of IQ decline, that is, as the saying goes, people in love have zero IQ.

Really like a person is that kind of selflessness, that is, waking up every morning and feeling that the other person will laugh unconsciously for the first time. Even if there are many difficulties in life, I can be inexplicably happy when I think of each other. There is no reason. This may be the best state of love between two people. However, this state of mutual concern, occasional smirking, and turning a blind eye to the difficulties in real life will be interpreted by many people who are not in this state of love as a decline in IQ. In fact, it's just that people ignore some practical factors because of love. It's not that his IQ has dropped, but that he is selective.

Boys and girls fall in love less and less when their IQ drops, because most people become more and more rational and so rational in love. In fact, reason and love are contradictory. True reason can't have love, because love is mutual, and this inner love is the relationship induced by this perceptual behavior. True reason will simply think that loving couples are just a form of passing on the family line, so love has no meaning, so the decline of this kind of love is very important, because it highlights some emotional needs of human beings, and it makes human beings a living person, not a rational machine.

So don't feel ugly because your IQ drops in love. You should be excited. Because you have met a love that really cares about you, you must cherish this love, because a person may only have one or two love that really lowers his IQ in his life. After this time, his emotional state will become more and more numb.