What correct ideas are often misused?

In life, there are often cases where correct ideas are misused, such as moral kidnapping, which we often mention recently. This word is mentioned more and more on the internet. It involves many aspects, such as giving up your seat on the bus and respecting teachers and the elderly. These ideas are very correct. We have been taught since childhood to be such people, that is, to be kind, caring and respectful to the elderly.

However, in our daily life, we sometimes encounter some unpleasant situations. I take myself as an example. One day, I went out to work alone, and my stomach ached on the way home. As soon as I got on the bus, I found a place to sit. Soon after, I stopped for a while. Many people came up, including many old people and children. An old man, who had no seat, came up and stood next to me. At that time, I was going to stand up and give up my seat to prevent the elderly with less flexible legs and feet from being injured by the shaking of the car. But at that time, my body was really good. I didn't get up and continued to sit by myself. At this time, a man told me that I didn't see an old man next to me and told me to get up and give up my seat. I explained that I was not feeling well, and the people next to me didn't understand me at all, accusing me of disrespecting the elderly and being ignorant. I usually get up and give up my seat, but this happened when I was uncomfortable that day. It was a correct idea to give up your seat to the elderly, but you can't force everyone to do it by moral kidnapping.

Then again, everyone gets on the bus at the same fare, and there is no difference between sitting and standing tickets. Why don't you know more? Mutual understanding can make our life better and more harmonious. We should all pay attention not to be a person who can kidnap others with morality, but to be a person who can contribute to the creation of a harmonious society.