Will a long-term AA relationship between husband and wife lead to divorce?

There is an example around me: A few days ago, their child was sick. In fact, they were in urgent need. The woman called the south. Should you send it to her or should I send it to her? What about the taxi fare? The man said that you should send her away first, and then you have to pay the medical expenses first. The two began to discuss again. We who were listening to the story couldn't stand listening to it anymore. How can we live now?

In fact, several AA friends around me have divorced. Fortunately, they divorced when they had no children. Most of them divorced when their children were a few years old.

Is AA just about money? In fact, there are still increasingly alienated hearts and feelings. When a woman is pregnant, she is not looking forward to joy but has to negotiate for money again and again. Who will pay for the prenatal check-up expenses? Who pays for production costs? Who buys milk powder and diapers? Should I buy food supplement toys for children? Who gets paid whether I sign up for extracurricular classes or not?

None of the above project expenditures are all done at once. They are trivial expenditures related to money that occur frequently on a daily basis. Although they are small, the total amount of money is not large. Anyone who has given birth to a child in these projects knows this. These are the expenditure items at the tip of the iceberg. There are many more, very complicated, family life items. Is this still a living? Every day is a negotiation about money, money, and it’s this kind of game where if you take something, I’ll take less, and if you take less, I’ll take more. Do you still want to live a life of one mind?

Impossible: I have a colleague who is in an AA marriage. She is eight months pregnant and has to drive to and from get off work with her pregnant belly on the steering wheel. She is pregnant with no money and no care. The two of them became more and more boring and later divorced.

Moreover, this financial method leads to inefficiency, artificially increases transaction costs, and makes accounting quite difficult. Coase's claim to fame is transaction costs. The purpose of establishing an organization is to reduce transaction costs. It should not be market-oriented internally, but administratively-oriented. The AA system involves transactions within the family, which violates the laws of economics.