New parents cut their children’s hair. The front looks like a girl and the back looks like a boy. What do you think?

Some children are naturally very resistant to barber shops, and they are still a little scared to let strangers use scissors on their heads. Therefore, some parents will also try to cut their children's hair. But because parents always have different aesthetic values, there are always some jokes when cutting their children's hair.

On the Internet, a pair of parents proudly uploaded the haircut they gave their child. From the front, the little girl has bangs and a high ponytail. She looks very sunny and cute.

But when the child turned around, the style of the painting changed instantly, because the hair on the back of the child's head was actually shaved. At first glance, it looked a bit like a mohawk, which was different from the cute painting on the front. The wind is completely different. It looks like a girl from the front and a boy from the back. The little girl's expression is also very helpless. Netizens have complained that these parents are really cheating on their children. I really don't know how their children can go to school with such hair.

Actually, there are many such careless parents in real life. Some more individual parents even joked: If the child is not born to play with, it will be meaningless! But if children dress up too "prominently" since childhood, what impact will this have on their growth?

Is it a good thing for children to dress up too "outstanding" since they were young?

1. It is easy to cause children to have low self-esteem

Some parents are generally not too careful when dressing up their children, and more tend to do whatever they want and rely on their own preferences. Or emotions dress up the child. Therefore, we always see some children dressed up in ugly and cute ways, and parents think this is good for their children.

In fact, children are still young and their aesthetic level is not on the same level as adults. Some clothes that adults think look good are considered "ugly" in the eyes of children. In this way, it is easy for children to be laughed at by other classmates at school. Children have relatively strong self-esteem and will easily develop an inferiority complex in the future.

2. It will affect children's learning

If parents usually pay great attention to their children's grooming, this behavior will also have an impact on their children unconsciously. For example, whenever children go out, they will subconsciously think about: what kind of clothes should they wear today, what kind of pants and shoes should they match, etc.

If a child often spends a lot of time and energy on dressing up, he will also pay special attention to other people's evaluation of his appearance. As a result, very little energy can be invested in learning, which has a great impact on their learning.

In fact, letting children dress up to stand out from an early age can be said to have advantages and disadvantages. The advantage is that it can enhance children's self-confidence and improve their aesthetic level. But it can also cause children to develop the bad habit of overly loving beauty, which will also be harmful to their growth. Therefore, we hope that parents will weigh the pros and cons and provide targeted guidance and education to their children.