Is parental love selfless?

They all preach that parents’ love is selfless. I don't think so.

? Selflessness means that without any strings attached, no matter what you do, without asking for anything in return, your parents will always love you.

Is this really the case?

In ancient times, when Duke Zhuang of Zheng was born, his mother hated him and preferred his younger brother. They are all children born to her, and the palms and backs of her hands are all flesh! Why can I only love my youngest son selflessly, but not Duke Zhuang selflessly?

? Different children cannot receive the same love, which shows that maternal love is not selfless. Even the same person may receive different kinds of love. Zhu Ziqing's father can be regarded as a role model for fathers. Regardless of the pain of unemployment, the embarrassment of a deficit, the pain of losing his mother, the numerous things, the bloated body, and the inconvenience of movement, he still sent his son off, picked a seat, climbed the railway to buy oranges, and loved It has to be great, right? But later on, didn't he still say, "When I was depressed, I would naturally express it outside; trivial matters in the family would often make him angry. He gradually treated me differently than before"? Zhu Ziqing's father even took away Zhu Ziqing's salary privately without Zhu Ziqing's consent, which resulted in him and his son turning against each other and cutting off all contact with him for several years. Isn't father's love selfless?

In "A Dream of Red Mansions", everyone was happily gathering together. Jia She told a joke, and Jia's mother sneered: This means that I am partial! Obviously, one mother gives birth to nine sons, and the nine sons are different. The old lady actually prefers Jia Zheng. Don’t say it’s all meat that fell from the mother’s body!

The emperor loves his eldest son, and the people love their youngest son. The old saying is even more to the point. If this is not true, the laws of nature also reveal a little bit of information: the human heart does not grow in the middle. Although the palms and backs of the hands are all flesh, the palms are thicker than the backs.

Parents’ love is actually conditional. Children who live well and are filial to their parents will naturally be favored, and their words at home will have weight. If children who are doing poorly do not consider their parents too much, why can't they make ugly remarks and roll their eyes at you? Of course, there are also unqualified old people who do dirty work in front of you but don't look down upon you.

Don't complain. It conforms to the laws of nature. Moreover, our parents raised us young and we are young and strong. If we don’t repay our parents, we will continue to be like the old people. We really don’t deserve the favor of our parents. It is a reasonable thing.

We don’t have to expect our parents’ love to be selfless, and we ourselves can’t become selfish because of it. Admit that love needs to be responded to and reciprocated, even if it is the love of parents.