How to treat jokes and ridicule others?

Laugh at your imperfections in the name of joking.

Colleague Xiao Zhao is fat, but she is cute, and her little girl is more lively.

But since the new colleague Xiao Li joined the company, Xiao Zhao has become silent and doesn't get together to chat with everyone. The reason is that Xiao Li often jokes about Xiao Zhao's physical shortcomings.

For example, when everyone is eating, Xiao Li will suddenly say to Xiao Zhao, "Stop eating, your eyes are getting fat." After that, he will laugh at himself, and some people who play better with Xiao Li will follow suit.

If Xiao Zhao is angry, he will say, "It's just a joke. You can't take a joke, can you? "

This is typical of mocking others in the name of joking. This is lip service, not a joke, but a very ill-bred behavior.

Jokes are meant to make the other person feel funny. If it hurts others, it is ridicule.

Maybe some people will laugh at themselves for their shortcomings, but others' self-mockery doesn't mean you can speak freely.

Especially between good friends, we should pay more attention to it. You can't say whatever you want when you feel a good relationship. It is often your casual jokes that hurt each other.

No matter when, what situation or relationship, joking can't be an excuse for you to laugh at others' shortcomings.