After living as a bitch, my life is much more comfortable. Should a woman live like a bitch?

Guide: Women, no matter when, don't give yourself a hard time. Marriage is bound to be wronged, but marriage must not keep you wronged. You should believe that at any time, you should love yourself and be strong.

Talking with friends about the tragedy in marriage, the most painful thing is to mention a bad news on May Day this year.

A woman named Shi, with two sons, lost contact for 60 hours and was found by the police, but this is the worst news.

In the WeChat sent by Shi to his sister, the lines are full of resentment and despair for her husband, forbearance and helplessness for her in-laws, and grievances for her parents.

These pains squeezed in her heart drove her to the wall. Like a balloon, the air pressure in the body exceeds the load and finally explodes. Destroyed herself and the children she worked so hard to raise.

Very sad, more angry, woman, why do you have to bear it? Why are you silent? Why do you want to be slaughtered?

Woman, I'd rather you live as a bitch that no one dares to bully. Really, because at least you're alive, alive.

So, I want to tell all the women in the world. In marriage, it is better to be a bitch than a dissatisfied wife.

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Bitch means a fierce and unreasonable woman.

What is a shrew in a marriage relationship is to meet her mother-in-law and her abusive father-in-law. Please don't flinch, let alone submit to humiliation, and fight bravely with each other.

If you are willing to cut yourself, you have to live a fucking life.

A healthy family relationship should be "husband-wife relationship" greater than "mother-child relationship", but in most China families, the mother-child relationship is far greater than the husband-wife relationship.

This abnormal relationship often leads to sharp family conflicts, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are at loggerheads.

Both sides pay attention to their husbands and sons in order to get each other's emotional response.

But the problem is that the sons in this family usually only let two women talk about swords.

Of course, it would be better to have an enlightened father-in-law, because if you can't bring back your mother-in-law's emotional care, at least you won't add fuel to the fire.

But if there is a Su Daqiang-style father-in-law who always gives you demons, he may give you moths to the fire one day.

What can you do? Don't be a bitch Don't be a bitch

History is too kind, blindly forbearing, self-effacing and silently enduring. Imagine that one day, the in-laws can find their conscience and change their abuse.

But if you seriously think about how this happened, people have lived for nearly half a century and have not changed. It's a big joke that you will change because of an outsider.

So, woman, you'd better be sexy, even if you're a bitch. Especially when you meet a family member who drives you to death, you have to fight back.

She scolds you, you scold it; She hits you, you hit out.

Fighting depends on who fights hard. You can't give up the first time, or you will be killed gradually in the future.

At least I'm not wronged, at least I'm at ease, at least I won't bring my hard-earned child into a dead end.

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My friend Shimizu is a living example.

From a delicate and gentle Jiangnan woman to a shrew with her hands akimbo. Although my personality has changed, it is important to feel refreshed.

Qingshui comes from Suzhou, a place rich in four famous embroidery Suzhou embroidery.

Before marriage, she was a gentle and virtuous Jiangnan woman who spoke softly. She usually blushed when she spoke a little louder.

My husband is from an industrial city in the north. They are college classmates. After graduation, they and their husbands settled in the north.

Although my husband is 1 m 78, he is a typical baby boy at heart, and three sentences cannot be separated from "what my mother said".

Before getting married, Shimizu felt that her husband was steady and practical, and he especially listened to his mother when he was so old. He is a person who can be relied on all his life.

Only after marriage did I really find out that my husband not only listened to his mother, but also listened more. My mother-in-law is whatever she says. Of course, my husband is good at clear water, but it is all based on her attitude towards clear water.

Mother-in-law's mood is the vane of family atmosphere. Mother-in-law is happy, and the sky is clear in Wan Li. Mother-in-law is angry, and there are dark clouds at home.

Besides, my mother-in-law especially likes going in and out of their bedrooms, rummaging through their cupboards at will and occasionally telling her what to do.

Everyone has privacy, work is busy, and they can't have a good rest when they go home. Qingshui has repeatedly hinted that her husband wants to talk to her mother-in-law, but her husband's mouth is definitely for us, and my mother can still harm us.

"Well, if your mother doesn't harm us, then in turn, I will harm you with malicious intent." Shimizu is so angry.

This kind of logic can't find the problem, but it drives you crazy in minutes.

For the love of Shimizu, he left his hometown and came to a strange city. He couldn't feel the warmth of his husband, and was scolded by a mother-in-law who loved to give orders. Shimizu feels more and more wronged.

Fed up with the treatment of kannika nimtragol, Shimizu was completely angry.

First of all, I had a heart-to-heart talk with my husband, pointing out how much harm his mother's behavior has brought to him. If he doesn't change, he will reconsider their relationship.

Secondly, when her mother-in-law swaggered at home again, she clearly told her that the bedroom belongs to her own private space, and she could not go in without her consent, let alone rummage through the things in the cupboard.

Mother-in-law, of course, is not happy, spreading rumors of Shimizu shrew everywhere and trying her best to win her son into her own camp.

Fortunately, my husband is not a mother treasure who goes deep into the bone marrow, and he gradually realizes his own problems.

Although Shimizu's reputation as a shrew has gone out, Shimizu said with a smile, "Since I became a shrew, my life has gradually become much more comfortable."

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In a family where the husband has nothing to do, the mother-in-law does whatever she wants, and the father-in-law is a tiger, and you happen to be a weak person, I am sorry to make you depressed every minute.

But if you are a tough and provocative woman, congratulations, even if you can't teach them to turn over a new leaf in minutes, you won't be wronged.

It is not easy to be born a man. When a woman marries, she doesn't want to be rich or expensive, but she shouldn't push herself to the wall.

Shi, what a kind woman, never spoke ill of her in-laws at the last moment of her life. I even believe in true love with my husband.

Although the in-laws are wrong, the husband's inaction is even more hateful.

It is this man who promised you a lifetime and let his parents bully you. I have repeatedly told you to be patient. If he hadn't paralyzed you again and again, maybe your seven-year patience wouldn't have hit a wall.

Even at the last minute, you don't understand that your husband is the crux of everything. He is the root of your conflict. It is because of his inaction that you and your children are pushed to the abyss.

When the war burns on yourself, when a cowardly husband can't protect you. Woman, I hope you are strong. For yourself and for the children.

If patience is useful, how to kick your nose and face? If apologizing helps, why do you need the police?

An unhealthy family may cause lifelong harm to a woman and even push her to ruin.

Because the daughter-in-law is unfilial, everyone knows. In-laws have no virtue, only daughter-in-law knows.

We can't empathize with the experience of history, but we hope there won't be another history.

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not related by blood. Just because I love the same man, I became a family. It is best to live in peace. If they can't live separately, stop loss in time and find another partner.

But, woman, don't wronged yourself, it's not worth it.

Of course, this is not to denigrate all husbands and in-laws. It must be admitted that the vast majority of husbands and in-laws are very, very good, and they are all busy with their jobs for a better life.

But there are still a small number of people who don't even have a basic moral bottom line and even waste their lives. Woman, if you meet such a person unfortunately, don't shrink back, don't be silent, don't be wronged, stand up.

Make yourself strong. Only when a woman is strong can the whole world make way for you.

Better be a bitch than a dissatisfied housewife.

If you really can't, get the hell out of here. There are thousands of children in China. Don't live in a place that makes your life worse than death.

Don't be hard on yourself, let alone hard. Life is worse than death.

Because, after all, there is hope when you are alive.

At least, still alive.