How to tell the truth in a joke?

This is a very interesting and challenging topic. Because we all know that real thoughts and feelings are often hidden behind jokes, and the people closest to us are the ones we don't want to hurt the most. So, how can we express the truth in a joke without making the other person feel uncomfortable?

I want to share my experience, which may give you some inspiration. I have been with my boyfriend for three years. We get along well and know each other well. However, there is one thing I have never had the courage to tell him, and that is that I think his clothes have poor taste. He always wears outdated, mismatched and ill-fitting clothes, which makes me feel embarrassed. I know he doesn't care much about these external things, and he thinks that as long as he is comfortable. But as his girlfriend, I also hope that he can give me a little face in front of outsiders and give myself a little confidence.

I've been thinking for a long time about how to tell him this problem gently without hurting his self-esteem. Later, I thought of a way to say it in a joke. One day, when we went shopping, I saw a beautiful shirt, so I picked it up and showed it to him. I said, "Honey, how beautiful this shirt is. Would you like to try it on? " He looked at his shirt, then at me and said, "Do you think my clothes look good?" I immediately smiled and said, "No matter where you are, whatever you wear looks good." . It's just that this shirt is more suitable for you and can show your temperament and elegance. "He laughed at my words and said," All right, all right, I'll try. " Then he went to the fitting room to change clothes.

I was really surprised when he changed it. He looks more handsome and stylish in that shirt. I quickly praised him and said, "Wow, you are so handsome! This shirt really suits you! You must buy it! " He listened to my compliment and was very happy. He said, "Really? Ok, I'll take it. " Then we happily paid the money and left.

Since then, I have often used this joke to recommend some beautiful clothes to him. He also gradually changed his dressing style and became more fashionable and tasteful. There is no contradiction or embarrassment between us because of this problem. On the contrary, we have enhanced mutual trust and understanding.

Therefore, I think it is not difficult to tell the truth to the closest people in a joking tone. We need to master proper limit and skills and express our thoughts and feelings in exaggerated, humorous and relaxed language.