Why do young people start to "coquetry"

Teenagers' "bad behavior" may involve many complicated social, psychological and personal factors, some of which may include:

Competition and pressure: Young people in modern society are facing increasing competition and pressure, including academic competition, professional competition and economic pressure, which may make some young people feel at a loss and choose to mess around to escape the pressure.

Lack of motivation and goals: Some young people may lack clear motivation and goals, and lack interest and investment in tasks or studies in life, so they choose to spoil and are unwilling to work hard.

Lack of skills and self-confidence: Some young people may feel that they lack skills or self-confidence, which leads to a lack of enthusiasm for study and work.

Negative psychological reaction: Faced with challenges and difficulties, some young people may have negative psychological reactions and choose to screw up to avoid difficulties and setbacks.

Influence of social media and virtual world: The popularity of social media and virtual world may make some young people get lost in the virtual world and lose interest and input in real life.

Family environment and educational methods: Family environment and educational methods have an important influence on the development and attitude of teenagers. Some families may be too tolerant or overprotective of their children and lack encouragement and guidance for them, resulting in young people's lack of positive motivation and sense of purpose.

These are just some of the reasons that may cause young people to "screw up". Different young people may show this mentality for different reasons. It is worth emphasizing that "doting" is not a positive and healthy state, and it may hinder personal development and growth. In order to better cope with this mentality, young people can try to face challenges positively, set clear goals and motives, seek support and guidance, cultivate self-confidence and positive mentality, and concentrate on their study, work and development in real life. If young people feel that there is something wrong with their mentality, they can consider seeking professional psychological support, such as psychological counseling or psychotherapy, to help solve psychological problems and find a more positive and effective way to deal with them.