Why do you want to please those who hate you?

_ My friend asked me: So-and-so, I always feel that I don't like me. I met him today and said something. He really misses me. I'm speechless.

I said, you know he doesn't like you, so what did you tell him to please him?

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There should be many people who, like my friend, can obviously feel that someone hates themselves, but they still create a fate with him. As a result, my hot face stuck to my cold ass, and then I started to get angry and found myself angry. I don't think so.

Birds of a feather flock together. Why do you and your friends become good friends? At the right time and place, fate and like-minded people will make you friends. But whether you hate you or not, they also have their own friends, and you can't deny them. But why do we have to destroy this balance and create an undue fate?

100 people, you have 2 good friends, 10 friends, 97 ordinary colleagues or classmates, 1 people who hate you. Don't change yourself and deny yourself just because this person hates you. Don't please the person who hates you and then find yourself angry. Pay more attention to 12 friends and do worthwhile things for those who deserve it.

No matter because of misunderstanding or personality reasons, some people hate you. Don't deliberately create fate to please him. If there is a fate, there is no need to deliberately, it is doomed that the misunderstanding will be solved and the character will run in. Accept people who hate you. Then he is the only person in the big circle who hates you. It doesn't mean that he has a bad character, nor does it mean that he has a bad character. It is a parallel line without predestination. Don't change forcibly, just let nature take its course. Maybe one day he will wonder why he hates you.

What about you? What do you do when you face someone who hates you?