You know nothing about love. What about love?

What is love?

There are almost various versions in the world.

Tell a joke about marriage and love first:

In the future AI artificial intelligence era, Mary made a mistake on who to marry and asked the artificial intelligence at home, "Who do I love more, Tom or Jack?" Or who should I marry? "

After five minutes of operation, artificial intelligence seriously told her the answer.

"Mary, you should marry Tom."

Mary said, "But I seem to like Jack better."

Artificial intelligence said: "Data analysis and research show that the time you spend with Jack is 565,438+00 hours, and the time you sleep with Tom is 83 times that of Jack ... The analysis report shows that you should marry Tom because it suits you better."

Regarding the combination of men and women, there are two modes, one is AA and the other is AB.

AA type, two people with similar personalities are together and are very happy with each other.

Type AB, two people with complementary personalities are together and appreciate each other.

I think: one is love and the other is affection.

The ancients said, "eat drink man woman", it is natural for young men and women to attract and love each other, and this is love. On a larger scale, love is like a colorful botanical garden, but what is love? Just like the most beautiful flower in the garden, it is rare.

Life is short, depending on luck, you may meet someone you like, or you may meet someone who likes you. Maybe you will fall in love, get married and live a good life. This is normal love.

But love, at all, is a wonderful flower.

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What's the smell of love?

Memoirs of a Bitter Prostitute is the last work of Nobel Prize in Literature winner Marquez.

Tell such a story, there is a 90-year-old man who is a columnist and has been whoring all his life. He has never been married, and every sexual intercourse costs money.

On his 90th birthday, he decided to give himself a birthday present, only to find that he was going to go whoring and asked to be a virgin. When he really faced the body of a 14-year-old girl, he did nothing, slept and woke up and left.

The most incredible thing is that the 90-year-old man fell in love with the prostitute.

He said: "Because of her, I first faced my nature at the end of the ninetieth year of my life. Silence is not my virtue, but a response to carelessness. I cover up my meanness with generosity. I pretend to be cautious and self-denying, because I am full of evil thoughts. I am gentle and will not give in to repressed anger. I am punctual just to hide how unimportant other people's time is to me. "

People who have never loved in their lives finally realize the taste of love before they die, and they should love after they die.

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Is homosexuality love?

Someone once said, "It is not unusual to meet love and sex in one's life."

But people around us are often very curious about homosexuality. Is this love?

20 17 On April 3rd, Sun Wenlin, the plaintiff in the first case of gay marriage registration in China, and Hu Mingliang, a homosexual, held a public wedding in Changsha today. Although the lawsuit was rejected by the court, they still held a wedding and got a marriage certificate.

In 20 14, 27-year-old Sun Wenlin and 37-year-old Hu Mingliang met online and have been together every day since the day they met. 20 15 Mid-Autumn Festival, Sun Wen forest belt took Hu Mingliang to have dinner at home.

Scientifically speaking, base wine is the sexual orientation of human beings, depending on the brain structure. You can understand it as a woman with a male body.

Love is a more advanced existence than friends. We not only need mutual recognition, but also need a profound judgment of each other's humanity, so as to obtain a profound similarity of human nature.

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What is its essence?

Ok, let's start with an unforgettable love.

Yang Guo's little dragon girl is committed to life and death, which is probably just a misunderstanding.

It seems that deep affection is also a phenomenon of love. What is the essence of love?

The essence of love is to "see yourself clearly"

In the movie Avatar, the hero and heroine often say, "I saw you." I saw you. And seeing is love.

Love turns out to be a mirror.

You reflect yourself through the people you love.

Therefore, "I see you", a simple sentence, has a very profound meaning. My feelings must be seen by you before they begin to exist. When it is not seen by your mirror, it seems as if it does not exist.

When you see me, there are two mirrors:

First floor: Your eyes are like mirrors. I can even see my mirror image in your eyes;

Layer 2: When you see me with your heart, your whole soul reacts like an abstract mirror, reflecting my existence.

Without a mirror, we can't see ourselves. From a philosophical point of view, without the mirror of "you", there would be no "I".

Love is like a mirror. If your soul is really seen by a person, you will fall in love with this person.

I saw myself by loving you.

I love you, because in your eyes, I really found the feeling that I exist in this world.

Maybe you got married in your thirties, maybe you are in your fifties and sixties. But one day you suddenly meet someone who makes you want to see yourself. This is love, this is the charm of love.

Finally, I want to say: where can I find another self? ''

Please embark on your love journey.