Many netizens feel that Yi Yang Qianxi’s loneliness is getting worse and worse. Why is this?

Yang Qianxi bluntly stated that he has social phobia. Then He Jiong and others also said that they liked to sing karaoke when they were young, but now they just like to be alone. Most people like to be alone. When interacting with others, they don't know how to speak, and even their behavior becomes awkward. Many people will be shy in front of the people they like, hesitating to speak, blushing and heart-beating. However, there are also many people who will also experience this situation when facing strangers or people they are not familiar with, so they are unwilling to go out and only want to go out. Stay to yourself, afraid that you won’t even know how to say hello to others when you meet them, and also afraid that you will be laughed at or offend others if you accidentally say the wrong thing. Do you have similar feelings?

The mismatch between high expectations and abilities led to Yi Yang Qianxi’s introverted character. Yi Yang Qianxi gradually developed a character of working silently and became less and less talkative. To a certain extent, this has led to Yi Yang Qianxi's current sense of alienation, even a bit withdrawn, and an aura of being unapproachable.

In fact, I gradually discovered that the older I got, the more afraid I was of interacting with others. When I was a child, I could get along with anyone, and I was particularly popular with my elders. I didn’t want to be alone, so I just wanted to When I go out to play, I just want to find friends to spend time with. But as I get older, I seem to be becoming more and more afraid of social interactions, afraid of the phone ringing suddenly, afraid of a sudden message from a friend I haven’t contacted for a long time, afraid of meeting relatives when I go home for the New Year, and afraid of meeting strangers.

In today's society, many people have a certain degree of social phobia: we can't help stuttering when speaking, and when we meet someone we know, we will have a mental battle over whether to say hello or not. A series of violent struggles... But these manifestations can only be called social phobia if they are caused by fear and not shyness. What is extreme is that in order to avoid this "embarrassment", some people directly choose to avoid all social activities and protect themselves from the outside world like a hedgehog.

There are many reasons for social phobia. It may be because you are not good enough, or you are afraid of interacting with others because of defects in appearance or body; it may also be due to family reasons. Poor economic conditions or other reasons can also cause social phobia. At the same time, if you live in a repressive social environment for a long time, you will also have social phobia. Generally speaking, in societies where people are more open-minded and less stressed, people are less likely to suffer from social phobia.