I am the most painful daughter of my parents, and I am beautiful, so my parents listen to everything and often speak ill of my sister-in-law. The more I say it, the more I hate my sister-in-law?

It can be seen from your description that what you said to your parents can really have some influence, but it is very likely that your parents also have some ideas about your sister-in-law, so what you said has also become a fuse.

Of course, the other party has become your sister-in-law If there is nothing serious, you should try to accept it. If you really don't get along, you can stay away.

However, if there is nothing wrong with the other party, just some minor friction or misunderstanding, and you are also boastful about what you said to your parents, then you have a problem, which will only affect the relationship between your parents and your sister-in-law, or even the relationship between your parents and your brother.

It is particularly noteworthy that when you speak ill of your sister-in-law, it won't have much impact if you just tell it to your parents. If you say it between relatives and friends, it will form a vicious circle of repeated mistakes, and then you don't even know how ugly your sister-in-law is.

Of course, in the end, they will laugh at your family and even regard you as the laughing stock of everyone. Moreover, if your sister-in-law has a good personality, she can ignore it, but if she has a bad personality, she will get angry and even really fight with you. When you grow up, your sister-in-law may even take it out on your brother because you often speak ill of him, so both of them are at risk of divorce, so try not to take care of your sister-in-law.