Why can't a first-love girlfriend be a wife?

Because first love doesn't understand love. I heard it as a joke in Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei's sketches. Talking about the second love, I found that the first love was really naive. On the question that the first love can't be a wife, interesting comments sum up three reasons: First, the first love is too young to understand love at all, and it is difficult to get to the end; Second, love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families; Third, two people can finally enter the marriage hall, at least in terms of personality, ability, work, appearance, family and so on. There are reciprocal conditions, and it is difficult for first love to meet this condition.

First, the first love is too young to understand love at all. The first love of interesting reviews is in high school, but it is already very late for this group after 90. At that time, many students began to fall in love in junior high school. After 95 and 00, most of them may have their first love in junior high school. First love is too young to understand love at all, but it will only happen after you have just entered adolescence and are curious about the opposite sex.

Judging from the experience of interesting reviews, the whole first love is a beautiful memory. But in fact, in the first love, I will not coax my first girlfriend, and I am even more reluctant to compromise with my first girlfriend on trivial matters. When the first love is nearly 1 year, there is hardly a week without quarreling, contradiction and cold war. There is no example that first love can finally enter the marriage hall.

Second, love belongs to two people, and marriage belongs to two families. After 80, 90 and 00, the only child accounts for the vast majority. Whether two people can get married is not only because of their love, but also because of the matching of two families. Since ancient times, a correct marriage is a long-term marriage. So is modern society. If the family background is different, the children are very different in values, outlook on life and personality. You can see all kinds of dog blood plots in TV dramas, without giving real examples.

Unless one of the men and women is particularly outstanding, the influence of family factors can be ignored. Even so, didn't Samsung princess royal marry a security guard? This is not a typical rich girl marrying a grassroots man. What is the ending? Two people have been fighting for divorce for many years. First love often considers love. Even if this love can last until the legal age of marriage, can the family conditions of the two match?

Third, there are many conditions for marriage, and first love is often not a good marriage partner. First love is for memory, not for marriage. There is an example among high school students. It is the first love of a man and a woman in the sixth grade of primary school. Results In senior high school, the height of boys was 190cm and that of girls was 150cm. The gap of 40cm is not the height difference of MengMeng, but simply a mismatch. In addition to height, with the growth of age, the first love parties will have gaps in education, ability, appearance, income and so on. How can I become a marriage partner?

Again, first love is beautiful, but this beauty only exists in memories!