What kind of behavior is bullying in China?

Bullying in the name of joking is very common in China. These behaviors may include verbal provocation, teasing, ridicule or embarrassing or humiliating others. This kind of behavior will appear in many occasions, such as schools, workplaces, social activities and so on.

Here are some common bullying behaviors in the name of joking:

First, spit

In China, spitting has become a cultural phenomenon, which is widely used in social media, TV programs and other occasions. Spitting usually refers to criticism, comments or even malicious attacks on something, and these attacks are often labeled as "humor" or "funny". For example, in some TV programs, the host may spit at the guests in sarcastic language to arouse the audience's laughter. But this behavior may make guests feel embarrassed or humiliated.

Second, ridicule

Laughter is another common bullying behavior in the name of joking. This behavior is usually directed at certain personal characteristics or appearances. For example, when a person dresses unfashionably or inappropriately on a certain occasion, others may laugh at him. This behavior may make the mocked person feel humiliated and embarrassed.

Third, joking.

Joking is also a kind of bullying in the name of joking. Usually, playing jokes is some surprising or disturbing jokes, which may contain some kind of mischief or fraud. For example, at a party, one person may tell a surprising joke to arouse other people's reaction. But if the joke is actually some kind of prank or fraud, then the bullied person may feel hurt or angry.

Fourth, play tricks.

Playing tricks in the name of joking is also a common bullying behavior. This kind of behavior usually refers to a malicious attack or ridicule on someone's body or behavior in order to arouse others' reaction. For example, a group of people may play tricks on someone together and make him feel embarrassed or embarrassed. This behavior may make the teased person feel hurt or angry.

Fifth, provocation

Provocation is a kind of bullying behavior in the name of joking, which usually involves malicious provocation or attack on someone's behavior or opinion. For example, in some groups, it may irritate a person to test his endurance or show his superiority. This behavior may make the angered person feel embarrassed or angry.

These bullying behaviors in the name of joking are common on many occasions in China. Although these behaviors may be regarded as "humor" or "funny", they may actually cause great psychological harm to the bullied person. Especially for people with sensitive personality or strong self-esteem, this behavior may cause long-term psychological impact, and even lead to mental problems such as depression and anxiety.

Therefore, in China, people need to be aware of the influence of bullying in the name of joking, especially in education, work and social occasions. People need to respect the dignity and rights of others and avoid using this improper humorous way to attack and hurt others. At the same time, individuals also need to learn how to face this bullying behavior, remain confident and calm, and not be hurt by this behavior.

In addition to provocation, there are other bullying behaviors in the name of joking, such as "pranks" and "tricks". These behaviors may be considered as a way to tease or express love on some occasions, but they may actually cause harm to the bullied person.

"Prank" refers to bullying someone in some practical or teasing way, which often happens between friends or colleagues. For example, moving someone's desk to another room, or putting something in his drink that shouldn't be put. These behaviors may make victims feel isolated or ashamed, and sometimes may lead to actual losses.

"Cheating" is a common bullying behavior in the name of joking. It usually happens between intimate relationships, such as husband and wife, lovers and friends. For example, when one party is busy with something, the other party may secretly hide the mobile phone, or use some "practical jokes" to gain the attention of the other party. Although these behaviors may be out of a joking attitude, they may also make the victims feel uneasy or despised.

In China, these bullying behaviors in the name of joking may be regarded as a social way or a way to express feelings, but people need to be aware of the potential harm of these behaviors and avoid them becoming real bullying behaviors.

At the same time, bullied people also need to learn how to protect themselves. If they find themselves being bullied, they should express their dissatisfaction in time, rather than submit to humiliation.

There is also a bullying behavior in the name of joking, which is "group ridicule". This behavior often occurs in schools, workplaces, social media and other public places. When someone is considered "different" for some reason, the group will attack him in a mocking and sarcastic way. This kind of behavior will not only make the victims feel humiliated and ashamed, but also lead to a blow to their self-esteem and self-confidence, and even affect their daily life and work.

In addition, some bullying behaviors in the name of joking are related to body, skin color and gender. For example, in school, some students are laughed at or excluded because of their different skin colors; In the workplace, some people may be discriminated against because of their height, weight or other physical characteristics. These behaviors may cause unforgettable harm to the victims and cause long-term psychological problems.

Finally, it should be noted that bullying in the name of joking will not only hurt the victims, but also have a negative impact on the whole society. If we can't find and correct such behaviors in time, they may become a bad social atmosphere and affect the harmony and stability of the whole society.

Therefore, each of us needs to be aware of the potential harm of bullying in the name of joking, speak out actively and refuse the occurrence of such improper behavior. At the same time, we should also learn to respect the feelings and rights of others, avoid bullying others in the name of joking, and create a harmonious social environment.