Give 25 pieces of advice to girls with soft personalities.

Don't giggle if you have nothing to do, especially when you are weak. You can see through it at a glance, and you laugh when others laugh at you. Not laughing at ordinary times can solve almost 50% of the weakness problem.

Step 2 discuss

Speak naturally, don't whisper, hold your head high, don't blush and bow your head, and speak calmly. As the saying goes, gentle and powerful, neither cold nor hot.

Step 3: Walk

Look straight ahead, sink your feet and hit the floor. Look straight ahead, don't stoop, walk as slowly and steadily as possible, and don't be dejected, because the whole person's aura will weaken.

4. Jokes

Don't tell jokes if you can't tell them. Don't be humorous without humor, or you will become an icebreaker or a topic terminator, and others will secretly laugh at you.

Step 5 refuse

Refuse others resolutely and generously, with short reasons, preferably no more than five words, to avoid over-explanation. You have the right to refuse. Other people's orders or moral kidnapping are disguised. Please help, please don't be mainly. Others take advantage of your good feelings for him and ask you to do all kinds of things for him. Please refuse.

Step 6 be confident

Do whatever you want, don't ask for other people's advice. Independence is the first step to form yourself, even if you are wrong. No point of view can map a person's confidence and fear of making mistakes. Think about who doesn't make mistakes in life, and making mistakes is at least better than being Nuo Nuo.

Step 7 help

Don't take the initiative to help others, take the initiative to think of others, take the initiative to give advice to others, others don't need it, use your head before helping others (your kindness may please others, others may not buy it, and others will look down on you)

8. Do things

Believe in the low-key power, don't brush the sense of existence, don't be smart, and anything that is too rash will become the target of public criticism.

9, interpersonal relationships

Don't make people laugh with your own anecdotes, don't say things that belittle yourself and raise others, don't show off yourself, and don't be too weak, but don't play hardball and exaggerate. You would rather say that you are conservative than not exaggerating at all.

10, awesome

Don't praise others casually. Praising others by the weak will only make people feel flattering and embarrassed.

1 1, communication

When you are with others, let others find topics and leave the task of active atmosphere to others. Leave the task of meeting and greeting to others, and you can only call the leader on your own initiative unless others take the initiative to say hello to you.

12, speaking speed

Slow down, slow down again, let the words go too far. When people talk to you, they usually want something from you. Wait at least five seconds before you speak. You speak late, and what you say carries weight. Slow down and don't be impatient.

13, bottom line

Don't accept other people's tasks, and be clear about your responsibilities. This kind of thing is most likely to happen in the workplace. If you accept it once, you will accept it countless times in the future.

14, mentality

Be calm at all times, don't be timid, don't panic, be calm.

15, language

Don't repeat what you said, it's easy to show your lack of confidence and thoughtlessness.

16, expression

Do a good job in expression management, the emotions are invisible, the eyes are calm and indifferent, and you are not surprised or afraid.

17, melodramatic

Nothing, don't wear too much makeup, don't be too melodramatic.

18, privacy

Don't pry into other people's privacy, don't get to the bottom of it, others will tell you if they want you to know. Don't reveal personal information in the same way of speaking, don't propose uninvited, be careful of other people's rhetoric, don't politely refuse, at least show your attitude.

19, chatting

When chatting with people, choose safe topics, use words carefully, don't judge others, even if it is good, be silent when you have nothing to say.

20. Action

Don't make too many small moves, it's easy to show your lack of confidence and behave normally.

2 1, euphemism

Speak tactfully. Don't let a rectum pass through your brain. Say whatever you want.

22. Control

Don't do what others say. People say it's not good here, so you can change it. Others say yes, so can you, even if it's your boyfriend. This is really easy for you to control.

23. Grace (female name)

Don't accept favors from others at will. When people do you a favor, they usually ask you to do something, so you must do something. If you don't do anything beneficial to you, you will leave a bad reputation.

24. complain

Don't be someone else's emotional trash can. When someone complains to you, please shut up and don't express any opinions, especially in the workplace. Be careful of being set up by others.

25. Please

Many soft-hearted people have flattering personalities. Don't please others for fear of offending them. The more you try to please others, the easier it is for you to be unpopular. Newcomers in the workplace should know that opportunities are not flattering, but proved by strength.