I gave my brother-in-law 2000 red envelopes when he got married in the Spring Festival. My 89-year-old grandmother said something and my wife knelt down for me.

Lead: My brother-in-law got married in the Spring Festival, and I gave him 2000 red envelopes. My 89-year-old grandmother said something and my wife knelt down for me.

My name is Cui Yong, a country boy. Graduated from high school and worked at home for two years. Then I pestered my brother to take me to work in the city. Although I left my hometown, with my brother as my companion, I quickly adapted to the environment. My colleague Dachuan in the factory is the same age as me, and we often go out to eat and sing together. I am favored by many girls because of my humor, and my wife Xiaomei is one of them.

Xiaomei is very careful and always helps me wash my dirty clothes and shoes. Her efforts and gentleness touched me, so we became lovers, and both parents were very satisfied with us. We got married a year later. The following year, when my daughter was born, Xiaomei was reluctant to let me go out to work, so I had to resign and go back to my hometown. Although the salary in the local area is not high, we can still maintain the living expenses at home, and our family is very happy.

Before the Spring Festival, I received a phone call from my mother-in-law, saying that my brother-in-law was getting married, and the wedding date was specially set for the Spring Festival, so that relatives who went out to work could come back. There were many people. Xiaomei and I discussed how much to pay. There is only more than 10 thousand yuan on the bank card at home. Apart from my daughter's kindergarten registration fee, Chinese New Year expenses and living expenses, there is really not much balance. I said I can only give 2000 yuan. Originally worried that Xiaomei would be unhappy, but she didn't object, but nodded obediently.

In fact, my brother-in-law has very good conditions. After graduating from college, I worked in a big city with a monthly salary of more than 20 thousand yuan. His wife's family is also rich, and he runs a company at home. To tell the truth, our money may not be taken seriously by others, and the plan is just a lively effort. I've thought it over. At that time, I will be diligent to help greet the guests, which is to make up for the debt with less red envelopes.

The day before the wedding, all three of us went to help. Seeing my mother-in-law, I gave her a red envelope. My mother-in-law is moping all day. I thought my father-in-law made him angry. In the afternoon, my brother-in-law and I posted windows and hung balloons, sweating all over, and Xiaomei never showed up. I was worried that she had caught a cold, so I went downstairs to find her. As a result, my 89-year-old grandmother told me that Xiaomei and her mother-in-law had gone to town.

Grandma usually lives alone in the old house, deaf and blind, and others don't like to take care of her. Today, she also came to join in the fun. After listening to her words, I didn't take it to heart, thinking that they had gone shopping and were about to go upstairs. Who knows, my grandmother took me and kept saying good things about me. She said, "Yong, you are a brother-in-law. You have nothing to say. When Xiaoming got married, you paid 10 thousand. The atmosphere is bold! "

Before I could explain, my grandmother told me that Xiaomei had taken her mother-in-law to the city to withdraw money. I called Xiaomei with a grain of salt. Her tone was very flustered, and I immediately understood that grandma was not lying. Half an hour later, my mother-in-law came back and smiled as soon as she entered the door, which was completely different from the attitude she had towards me the day before. I pulled Xiaomei aside and just wanted to ask her what was going on. Unexpectedly, Xiaomei knelt down for me and said with tears that she only had one younger brother. Mother-in-law said to write the money given by her sister and brother-in-law on the first page of the account book, and if she gave less, she would be laughed at by her relatives. Later, she dared not look up in front of her sister-in-law.

My teeth itch with anger. There are still so many relatives who haven't bought New Year gifts. Now I have no money to give gifts. In recent years, Xiaomei hasn't worked for a day, and the whole family is counting on my salary. Now she doesn't even say hello to withdraw money, keeping it from me. Obviously, I don't count in this family, and I can't live this life. I told her to get her money back or get a divorce.

Xiaomei disagreed with me anyway, crying and begging me to forgive her once, so many years of husband and wife feelings. In fact, I also know that it is not appropriate to get the money back, that is, to scare her. Seeing that Xiaomei really made a mistake, I can't bear to make trouble again. Through this incident, I want to understand that if she is asked to find a job after the Chinese New Year, a woman still needs some money, so it is convenient to buy something for her family. I don't care if I can't see nature.

I am not an unreasonable person. If Xiaomei discussed it with me, I couldn't refuse it out of face, but it was wrong for her to keep it from me. This feeling of not being trusted will not feel good on anyone. Since we are husband and wife, everything should be open and honest, which is the correct way for husband and wife to get along.

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