How do we do children's reading now?

One year on Teacher's Day, I was alone at home and a group of students came when I was teaching in the countryside. I seldom cook, so I scramble to cook for them. The students said they wanted to help, but in fact they could do nothing but make things worse. I just let them sit in the living room and chat. After dinner, I was still quietly cleaning up in the kitchen, washing dishes and pots, boiling water and mopping the floor. As college students, they continued to say there, I suddenly felt very sad: why can they feel so at ease?

On second thought, haven't you treated your parents like this for so many years? Every time I bring a guest home, I only care about eating, drinking, playing cards and chatting. Why should I go to the kitchen to help my gray-haired mother choose vegetables or beat her waist, and help my father pick up a pot of water or empty a bag of garbage? After the guests left, they fell asleep immediately after washing themselves, without even talking to their busy parents. Have I ever thought about their psychological feelings?

I once saw an old joke: a landlord suddenly showed great kindness, invited debtors and announced that they would be exempted from their debts, but asked them to state how to repay them in the next life. Debtors all say that they will be cattle and horses for the landlord in their next life. Only one person who owes the most said, "Sir, I owe you so much. I can't repay you by being a cow and a horse. I can only repay you if I am your father in my next life! " At that time, when we saw this joke, everyone said that the debtor had benefited and took advantage of others, which was very "the wisdom of the working people." But now I can't laugh at this joke, because I really can't think of anything more thorough than being a parent.

Today, with the concept of "filial piety" gradually fading out of people's minds, we often understand the obligation to support our elders as simple and tacky, thinking that it is to give them money every month and buy them something to eat on holidays. We even lost the patience to sit down and listen to them for five minutes. At the same time, you can patiently and gently play simple building block games with your children for 100 times. We can turn a blind eye to our parents' years of rheumatoid arthritis and stomach problems, but the occasional cough of our children can make us highly nervous. We forget that our parents doted on us in this way many years ago, and they still have a strong doting complex today, which is why they can tolerate our negligence, laziness and rudeness.

As long as we put ourselves in the shoes, we will understand that the expectations of the old people are not much, perhaps just a pair of shoes when entering the door, a towel when sweating, a careful hand when crossing the road, and a warm blessing on the birthday. How can these little things satisfy the old man's heart! When we complain that old people are cumbersome and don't understand young people, how can we understand their meager expectations! Let's not talk about all kinds of accommodation for spouses and children. In the unit, we have accommodated many complicated meetings, been treated unfairly without understanding, and how many times have we patiently understood and cared for others in social occasions. Why can't we be more considerate and kind to our parents who give us the most selfless care? Perhaps, as long as each of us shows 1% enthusiasm and hospitality to leaders, customers and handsome guys and beautiful women, how many parents who were originally desolate will become happy and full!