Ode to Joy: Why does Fan Shengmei, the "fishing girl", make people feel hateful and pitiful?

Look at the original Ode to Joy and admire Andy's high ability and high income; Envy Qu Xiaoyu's spontaneous personality cultivated by his innate superior family conditions; I like Guan Juer's serious and responsible attitude towards life; I despise Qiu Yingying's gesture of putting down her body for love, but I don't know what kind of feelings she has for Fan Shengmei. It is unfair to her to simply say love and hate.

In my opinion, Fan Shengmei is an absolute contradiction among five women on the 22nd floor of Ode to Joy Community. She is independent, intelligent, capable, beautiful, hateful and pitiful.

Qu Xiao-Kan said to Guan Yu-er:

"Well, I'm telling you, Fan Shengmei is essentially a fisherman. I won't wronged her. The first time I saw her, she was triumphantly instigating the silly and bold Xiao Qiu, saying how she sharpened her head and got into the opening of a noble bar, in order to pinch the tip inside, because the people who could get into the bar on the opening day were either rich or expensive. What is this not fishing for women? "

I've met Qu Xiaoyu, a man who has been hooked up with Fan Shengmei several times, and I don't hesitate to think that she is a complete prostitute.

Indeed, Fan Shengmei is constantly wandering among all kinds of rich men, constantly trying to take advantage of men, and relying on his body and beauty, looking for a harbor to rely on for the rest of his life.

There are many scenes in the original book that describe Fan Shengmei's tangled relationship with men. Both Qu Xiaoyu and Andy can't stand it, but she enjoys it. She doesn't love them, and she just wants to talk about money with them, only to see how much benefits and benefits those men can bring her.

Fan Shengmei is well-dressed, but she can't hide her mess all the time. Because she is only interested in other people's money, others are not sincere to her.

Fan Shengmei's father is in hospital and urgently needs 1, yuan for surgery. She is penniless, so she calls those men:

Some of those who used to drink, dance, sing and watch movies with her just like beggars, saying that he has 1, yuan in cash. Do you want to send it first? Some people say that in recent years, money is so tight that they want to jump off a building, and they can't help it. Others asked her directly how to sell it.

At the critical moment, Fan Shengmei discovered that no man around her really liked her, and those men would not do anything for her except to take advantage of her.

Fan Shengmei dresses herself up beautifully, but in fact, she is just a joke in the eyes of others.

A 3-year-old leftover woman, young and beautiful, is not as good as she used to be. She lives in the cheapest compartment. She is full of miscellaneous brands, but she is extremely vain. She sharpens her head and goes to the rich.

Fan Shengmei like this is so annoying.

However, looking back at family of origin of Fan Shengmei, you have another feeling for her.

Fan Shengmei grew up in an environment where his parents preferred boys. After work, her parents used her as a tool to earn money and asked her to send money home every month. After working for many years, she had no savings.

My incompetent brother is a bottomless pit. He doesn't work hard and makes trouble everywhere. For the sake of this brother, Fan Shengmei fuck broken heart. Brother wants to buy a house, forcing Fan Shengmei to pay half of the money; My brother had an accident in a fight with someone, and forced Fan Shengmei to pay compensation ... If he couldn't come up with it, he forced her to borrow it. Living in such a family, it was good enough not to drive Fan Shengmei into a mental derangement.

Fan Shengmei sharpened his head and wore it among rich men for various benefits. family of origin, like a vampire, was the biggest culprit. She needs money badly, but she can't support her family and her dignity with her little salary. She doesn't have Andy's ability. She can only sell her body and beauty.

Combined with Fan Shengmei's family of origin, you think she is particularly pitiful. With such a family of origin, it is a tragedy at birth and there is nowhere to escape.

If I only look at Fan Shengmei, I think she is a nice person. She is a senior HR, capable of working and independent.

She earns more money than Guan Juer, has more self-esteem than Qiu Yingying, understands the world better than Andy, and is more considerate than Qu Xiaoyu.

But she must live like this ghost, which is not only family of origin's injury, but also her own vanity. Therefore, the combination of Fan Shengmei's advantages and disadvantages makes people love and hate. The sister on the 22nd floor finally saw the good difficulties, finally understood her and regarded her as the cutest Sister Fan.

But, fortunately, at the end of Ode to Joy, Fan Shengmei finally realized that when she stopped living for her family and men, she became herself and pampered herself well, and became the most positive woman. At this time, Fan Shengmei was the most beautiful woman.

Women are born as human beings, and the most wonderful moment in life is when we need to put down the burden and live for ourselves.