Why are people with real personalities annoying?

Narrow-minded, narrow-minded, only staring at Xiao Pi, being a coward in big matters, loafing around all day and gossiping. No self-esteem, repeated, how to say it is also a dead mouse can't touch the cold. A man who relies on his wife to support his family, eats a soft meal and has an affair. Beating women, taking advantage of love, shameless, irresponsible, meaner than women, worthless, spineless, bad people, boys who do disgusting things make people feel very low.