My husband has no job in his eyes. How did he know that men also have to do housework?

In the process of marriage, the sharing of housework is particularly important. In our parents' marriage life, it is generally that the man is in charge outside and the woman is in charge inside, but in today's society, women have to enter the workplace like men and face the same pressure of life and work. Then it will be very backward to maintain family relations with old routines, and such family relations will be very disharmonious.

Then, what should you do if your husband is male chauvinist and never takes the initiative to help you with the housework? Now my sister will share how I made my husband change his attitude from the experience and feelings of an experienced person.

First, active communication.

You can communicate with him in a softer way first. Family belongs to two people, so you can't live with the idea of living in your own home. Mom and dad used to help me pack up and make it bigger. Now that I'm married, you have to tell him that he can't do this anymore. Because now you two live together and share the housework, and housework is definitely not the responsibility and obligation of one party. Of course, this method is suitable for a very small number of men, and it is also the most ineffective method. But you can try first. Maybe she loves you too much to watch you do housework, so she changed herself.

Second, cross the rubicon

My husband didn't clean the house or do housework before. The best place to clean up is his own desk, so I have to do this and that every day. For a long time, he has developed a Buddhist state and does not do housework. At the same time, there are all kinds of disguises I packed, and he made a mess when he did it. I didn't expect that when I finished, it should have become my business. Can I stand my bad temper? Should I? Then, I came up with the idea that this problem must be changed. Then, I will take a chance and do nothing at home, just eat snacks and don't cook. His friend was coming, and the house was like a pigsty, so I went shopping directly. Maybe some men will say that they have no sense of the overall situation and don't give their husbands face. When you ask your wife to clean the house for two hours, you may have a little love for your wife. No. Then you must accept the punishment, right?

Later, it is said that my husband spent nearly two hours cleaning the house by himself, and since then, things have changed for the better.

Although this move is cruel, it is for your future marriage life, so as not to be overwhelmed. It is better to implement it as soon as possible. Otherwise, you will find that you are on your way to a disgruntled woman.

Third, the effectiveness of children.

This should be regarded as a hardware requirement. Now almost every family has a hard time, so even if you want to be Iron Man, you can't say that you can't turn around for 24 hours. Then your husband must share it, and he must form a good habit of loving labor during this period. After my husband had a child, it was an earth-shaking change. I don't know why, but it suddenly changed. From a boy to a master who can do anything at once.

You can't underestimate the power of children. Children are the natural knot of many men. He may not give you all his love, but a responsible man will give 200% of his love to his children.

Every family relationship actually has various types. You have to observe what type your husband usually belongs to. There must be weaknesses. You should be careful yourself, think more at ordinary times and use better methods. Of course, sometimes quarreling can solve the problem, but if your husband is born with a bad temper, this method will not work well. But if he has a soft personality, then you can try to make your attitude clear. Let him know that this home is not your own, and it needs two people to work together and maintain it together.