The joke teller on the farmer's wine table

In rural life, wine has always been the most common drink. On weekdays, farmers will have a few drinks at home, and their hearts will be more carefree. When relatives and friends come home, wine can adjust the atmosphere and interact, so that we can communicate freely, and the pressure and troubles in our hearts will be vented through drunkenness.

At weddings, funerals and weddings, everyone always gets together for a banquet, and wine becomes the main way to communicate with each other. There are many rules on the wine table, and thousands of years of cultural evolution have made wine culture popular.

Everyone will consciously abide by these stresses and customs. For example, the seating of wine tables is arranged according to social status and generational order; When toasting, you should follow the order from big to small, and the glass should be lower than the other party when toasting; The youngest person undertakes the task of pouring wine.

Not only that, there is also a "way of speaking" on the wine table. Some words can't be said indiscriminately, and words that are laughed at may offend people.

1. You are too old to drink too much wine.

When drinking with others, many people have said something similar: "I'm old and drunk. I'll do it." Indeed, when you mention it, everyone knows that you are well-intentioned to persuade the other party not to drink. After all, drinking too much wine is easy to hurt the body, and it is not very protective for the body, especially for the elderly.

However, this sentence can only be said in private. If you say this sentence in front of others on the wine table, you will look down on their performance and lose your face, so that the other party may get angry on the spot.

Drink more and everyone will be happy.

If you are drinking with a leader, you will always hear something similar: "Leaders should set an example and drink more, so that everyone can be happy!" Maybe when many farmers drink at home, they always try to persuade them to drink. Those elders will always be advised to drink more, and others can have fun and drink boldly.

But you can't say that about working meals. After all, leaders need to keep a clear head and not lose their manners, otherwise they will have little prestige when they get along with employees in the future.

Come on, let's have a drink together.

If it is between peers, this sentence is naturally harmless, and raising a glass can make the atmosphere stronger.

But it's different with the elders. This sentence can only be said by elders, otherwise others will think you are uneducated and will be laughed at instead.