When I went to bed at night, my son, who had just separated into bed, insisted on sleeping with me, but his father wouldn't let me. The son said: "Why can you sleep with my mother, but I can't?" He

Most children who are used to sleeping with adults are reluctant to sleep in separate beds at first, so it will be difficult to implement to varying degrees.! In fact, there are three main reasons why children are reluctant to sleep alone: Psychological factors: Fear: This is a common inner experience in children's growth and development, such as fear of monsters, nightmares, and the death of relatives; this experience is especially strong at night when adults are not around. Attachment psychology: Children grow up in their mother's arms and sleep in the same bed with their parents. With daily skin-to-skin contact and caressing, children are prone to attachment psychology and are naturally unwilling to sleep in separate beds. Lonely psychology: When children sleep with their parents, they can talk and listen to stories before going to bed. When they open their eyes in the morning, they can see their parents’ smiling faces, listen to gentle words, and act coquettishly to their parents. They feel very at ease and happy. It's natural to feel a certain amount of loneliness when sleeping alone. After understanding the above psychological factors, parents can provide personalized guidance to their children. For example, for children who are prone to fear, parents should allow them to express their fears and give them guidance so that they understand that fear will disappear as they grow up; for children with strong attachment psychology, parents can try their best to Put the crib next to the parents' bed, and lower the railing on the side of the crib close to the parents' bed, so that the children can feel that their parents are beside them. For children who are prone to loneliness, they can caress more, stay with them for a while, and talk some more before going to sleep. Good stories make him fall asleep happily, and he often takes care of him at night so that the baby does not feel tired.