Why are some men used to joking and saying vulgar love words?

There is a phenomenon that many men who have no romantic thinking or romantic reserves are used to joking with the love words of the earth, which is a fact that makes people laugh and cry. This may be even more embarrassing for the parties who have to listen to these rustic love stories. Because, pretending to be ignorant of the world will make you feel uncomfortable; And if you want to tell each other these words are very corny, it seems to make the atmosphere a little awkward. Even so, there are indeed many men in life, especially some greasy middle-aged men, who are used to joking about rustic love stories and find it very interesting. So, why are some men used to joking and saying rustic love words?

For example,? You seem to have gained weight recently? Why? Because your heart is heavy for me again? It looks romantic on the surface, but it's really embarrassing. Especially when men say this to women, it's embarrassing. Because girls don't want to be criticized by boys for being fat. However, if you want to ask why some men are used to joking about the earthiness, the main reason can still be analyzed.

First, it is related to the world-wide male-dominated society. As far as China is concerned, at least, male chauvinism has existed for thousands of years. Even now is the era of advocating equality between men and women, many men still have the idea of male chauvinism, so they often feel inexplicably conceited. Moreover, the male groups who make these actions are often men without deep cultural self-restraint, usually middle-aged greasy groups. The superposition of these two reasons on one person often leads to this situation. However, this is really an embarrassing thing.

Therefore, some men are used to making jokes about earthy love stories, which is related to the low male-centered thinking and cultural literacy, while men who are used to making jokes about earthy love stories tend to be mainly middle-aged greasy groups.