How parents educate their children at home

Introduction: Parents’ methods of educating young children at home. No matter what period it is, parents should pay special attention to the way their children are educated. Parents can adopt certain methods based on actual problems in order to help parents understand the content in this regard. I believe parents can have a more thorough understanding of educating their children. The true meaning of. Methods for parents to educate young children at home

First, it is necessary to maintain the same educational concepts and methods as those in kindergartens and cultivate children's good behavioral habits.

For example: insist on going to bed early and getting up early, and do not disrupt your work and rest time just because of holidays; do not dote on your life, encourage your children to take care of themselves and be self-reliant, and let them wear their own underwear, shoes and socks. The voice of the child is ?Please help me and let me do it myself? Adults should have enough patience and confidence to wait for their children to complete what they can, and give their children the expected time to avoid procrastination or dependence; parents should set an example of courtesy and etiquette, and promote When children interact with others, they not only interact with acquaintances, but also take them to parks, supermarkets and other public places to interact with strangers and become familiar with the community environment. Parenting of young children

Second, prepare a living environment that is convenient for children to practice life.

For example: In addition to placing toys and books low, there should also be hangers suitable for children's heights so that children can hang their sandals or choose clothes; prepare some real but inexpensive meals Let the children take the utensils when they need them and put them back in place after use; let the children participate in family affairs such as serving meals, setting tableware, wiping the floor, and tidying up the room. Parent-Child Network

Third, education must be adapted to children’s sensitive periods.

Children will be particularly interested in certain things or actions at a certain stage. For example, they will be sensitive to small things when they are about one and a half years old, their language will explode when they are two years old, and they will especially like to touch with their hands before they are three years old. Any object; after the age of three, children gradually enter various sensitive periods such as observation, expression, counting, recognition, reading, writing, communication, and culture. Parents can provide learning conditions based on their children's interests. It should be noted that firstly, do not force children to learn, especially to memorize abstract things; secondly, start with concrete visual content; thirdly, try to let children operate by hand, because hands are the best for children. teacher?. Adapting education during the sensitive period will achieve twice the result with half the effort, so that "the teacher has the intention, the scholar has no intention". If the principle of the sensitive period is violated and the child's growth needs are encouraged or suppressed according to the adult's subjective will, it will cause various harms to the child. It may even affect later adulthood. Methods for parents to educate young children at home

Three preparations

First: Create a good early education atmosphere for the children. Although children do not yet have the ability to analyze and judge, they have a strong ability to imitate and will imitate every move of the adults around them. Therefore, when educating children, adults should be cautious in their words and deeds and set a good example for their children. This is Teaching by precept and example is the key to early childhood education.

Second: Let children learn from experience in life, and use various forms of small games to let children understand the things around them, adapt to the living environment and develop intelligence. Let them play with children more often, so that children can receive comprehensive early education in moral, intellectual, physical, artistic and physical education.

Third: Prepare some early education smart toys suitable for children. There are a lot of early education toys on the market, and most of them are simple auditory early education toys that can realize conversations, recognize body positions, interact with people, etc., but ignore the visual early education functions. Good early education toys should have the following factors:

1. No harm to children’s eyes and no light radiation;

2. Strong anti-fall, exquisite and round appearance design;

3. The content is healthy and rich in various forms. It can play videos, music, pictures, and interactive content. Really combine education with fun.

4. Easy to operate and carry.

Moral education is education that cultivates children to have a correct outlook on life and values, cultivates children to have good moral qualities, and forms correct ways of thinking. This stage should start from an early age, starting from the family. This is a long-term accumulation process. Family atmosphere is also one of the important factors. Parents should discuss matters in real life, lead by example, and set an example first.

You should also be careful when choosing books to read and cartoons to watch for your children. It is better to choose content that is meaningful and full of positive energy. For example, the story series of Chinese studies literacy in the Story Light Classic Story Hall is a selection of traditional Chinese fables, which can allow children to absorb the essence of tradition, cultivate extraordinary temperament, and lay the foundation for a noble life! There is also the "Disciple Rules" in the China Chinese Studies Hall. , "Three Character Classic", etc., so that children can learn both from an early age.

Intellectual education is to provide children with systematic early education to develop their intelligence. The earliest is language enlightenment, followed by cognition through literacy and picture reading, which is also an important way to develop children's intelligence. At home, parents can use small objects around them to arrange things related to their children's lives into words or various patterns, so that children can learn to recognize them. When the child starts to recognize words, they can also place some words for her to recognize. In addition, you should also read some simple picture story books with your baby. Of course, you can also accompany your baby to watch healthy cartoons in the story light, such as "Disciple Rules", "Idiom Stories" and "Fable Stories", which can make your baby happy. Be interested in Chinese ethics and education and imitate them, gradually cultivating cultural accomplishment. Storylight also allows children to do built-in interactive educational training questions to stimulate their potential and improve their intelligence.

Sports can enhance children’s physical fitness and cultivate children’s willpower. Guide children to go for walks in nature and exercise. Families that have the conditions start to pay attention to training in this area from the moment the child is born, such as learning to swim in the newborn period and skating around one and a half years old. Parents should improve their children's physical training so that while their children have a strong physique, they can also develop bold and courageous qualities.

Aesthetic education is education that cultivates children’s aesthetics, develops their ability to appreciate and create beauty, and cultivates their noble sentiments and civilized qualities. For example, after accompanying your children to complete their daily life and study tasks every day, you might as well enjoy beautiful music with your children. You can take your children to watch musicals, or listen to the music in the Story Light Relaxing Music Hall at home, so that they can Chinese and foreign children's songs and nursery rhymes stimulate children's interest in music, let them feel the beauty in music, and improve their aesthetic ability. You will find that music can make children's expressions, movements, and appearance reveal an elegant temperament. In addition, children can also learn painting and modeling, which has a great effect on stimulating the development of their right brain, enhancing their imagination, image thinking, and improving their appreciation of beauty.

Labor education is education that cultivates children’s labor concepts and labor skills. Grasp the beginning of work and start with work that interests children. Children are particularly curious. They want to try everything and imitate the work of adults. For example, when children see their parents washing clothes and it is interesting to make soap bubbles, you can teach them how to wash clothes and let them wash their own handkerchiefs, socks, etc. Methods for parents to educate young children at home

1. Create a good growth atmosphere for children

The influence of the family environment on children is crucial. The family is the first place for children to live and learn. The structure and atmosphere of the family, the overall quality of family members, the moral standards, words and deeds of family members determine the moral character and behavioral habits of children in their future lives. Generally speaking, in families where three generations live together, family members will have varying degrees of differences in their attitudes, methods, and educational content toward children’s education. Under normal circumstances, grandparents will pay close attention to children's diet and daily life, while parents will pay more attention to children's intellectual development. In terms of moral character cultivation, ancestors and parents will also differ based on historical concepts, cultural quality, and moral standards. This requires parents to be as coordinated as possible in treating their children, and to cultivate children's good moral qualities as the starting point, so that children can grow up healthily both physically and mentally. The atmosphere of the family also affects young children. A warm and harmonious family can easily develop the character of modesty, friendliness, politeness, and confidence in young children. Constant noisy, disagreements between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, divorced parents, etc., can lead to loneliness in children, resentment, suspicion, stubbornness, Rude and other bad traits and aggressive behavior.

2. Strengthen the cultivation of children's self-confidence

Cultivating children's psychological quality of believing in their own strength will have an excellent impact on their life-long development. If a person lacks self-confidence, cannot see his own abilities, thinks that he is incapable of doing anything, always inferior to others, and has low achievement motivation, he will be passive and do half the things he can do well. Over time, it will hinder the physical and mental development of children.

Therefore, cultivating children's self-confidence must be combined with cultivating children's multiple abilities and interests, so that children's self-confidence can be established on a real basis. People often say that "failure is the mother of success", but for young children, it may be "success is the mother of success". We should give children more opportunities to show themselves, encourage them more, praise them more, and criticize them less. Some parents often say things indiscriminately when reprimanding their children: Look how good the children of such and such a family are, how smart other people’s children are, but look how stupid you are. Parents can say anything when they are angry, but they don't know that your angry words may affect the growth of their children throughout their lives. Therefore, when children are growing up, parents should avoid using insulting words such as "idiot", "useless thing", and "idiot". A child's growth begins with recognizing mistakes, and the process of recognizing errors is also the process of a child's growth. Every child has his or her own strengths and weaknesses. You must be good at discovering your child's strengths and helping your children overcome their shortcomings.

3. Develop children’s language skills

During this period, parents should try to take out as much time as possible to communicate with their children. They can talk about anything. For example, they can tell stories about their childhood. I really like to hear it. Listening more and consciously letting children learn to listen will be very beneficial to their future development. Tell more, let the children tell stories in the kindergarten, what happened with the children, tell a small joke, play a small game, you can also ask the children to retell the story and tell who is in the story and what they are doing. Speaking more is mainly to develop children's language expression ability and lay a good language foundation for entering primary school.

4. Exercise children’s life skills

Children’s life skills include organizing school bags, managing their own belongings, going to kindergarten on time, going to bed on time, as well as independent communication skills, solving problems Problem abilities, etc. If there is a small conflict between a child and a peer, parents must not come forward. They should guide the child to resolve it on their own, and encourage the child to communicate more with other children, exercise their ability to interact with peers, and lay the foundation for establishing good interpersonal relationships. The purpose of training children's life skills is to let them gradually learn to manage themselves so that they can live a busy, orderly and orderly life after entering elementary school.