My mother-in-law thinks 18 thousand is too little. How should the groom handle such a situation?

Recently, a young man in Xuzhou, Jiangsu Province encountered a trouble when he was preparing to get married.

The young man went to his father-in-law's house and was made difficult by his mother-in-law when he received relatives.

At that time, the young men came to the woman's house according to the normal wedding process. But halfway through the wedding, my mother-in-law suddenly stopped the normal wedding. To this end, the young man carefully prepared 18000 yuan and gave it to the woman.

Even so, the young man was stumped by his mother-in-law

In fact, those of us who have usually attended the wedding should know that during the wedding, the woman will set some small questions for the groom to increase the interest of the wedding. At this time, in order to break these obstacles, the groom often takes out red envelopes prepared in advance to clear them.

After being made difficult, the young man took out the money prepared in advance. I don't know that his mother-in-law is hard to send away, but I think the young man gives too little money, which shows that he doesn't like it.

After being rejected in public, the young man looked embarrassed.

Since then, in order to ease the embarrassment, the man's family began to speak for the groom, only to be interrupted by his mother-in-law just after half a sentence.

Mother-in-law bluntly, not a penny less.

At that time, the bride was sitting on the bed, concentrating on counting money, and didn't want to help the groom at all. Even the bridesmaids present can't stand it.

Once this video came out, many netizens questioned whether the husband's family was marrying or selling prostitutes.

They all look at money, and the so-called feelings have long been forgotten by them.

In fact, it is similar to what the man encountered when he picked up his relatives. There are still many in reality. The performance of mother-in-law in this incident is not a case. Many people have conflicts when they get married, so the wedding is no longer held, and many people break up with each other.

At this time, if the groom still wants to marry the woman in front of him, or he still loves this woman deeply in his heart, then he must compromise. Try to meet each other's needs when they don't ask too much. After all, the other party is married to a daughter, and her heart is extremely unbalanced.

If the groom doesn't have deep feelings for the woman he wants to marry, or the other person's attitude is too aggressive, then the young man can give in and not compromise. He also has his own choices. But what he should consider more is the consequences after the wedding cannot be held.

At this festive moment, the young man is a little more atmospheric, a little happier, and a little sweeter. With his own wisdom, he has turned this matter into a harmonious friendship, which is completely overdone.

If the wedding is difficult, the groom should try not to get angry. If the groom is angry and the two sides are at odds, the wedding will definitely not happen in the end. I believe this is not the result that both men and women want to see.

At this time, the groom can also ask their marriage references for help, or ask the elders at home to coordinate, so as to ensure the normal and orderly wedding.

For the woman, what I want to say is that the wedding is a matter for two families. The two families must be friendly and talk about everything. Never let one party be dissatisfied with the other, which makes the wedding impossible and unworthy.