The child was laughed at by his classmates at school because he was fat. How to enlighten them?

Parents need to let their children know that many of the teasing between classmates is just a joke.

Many times, students just play a joke by the way, and as a result, children are really upset, excited and have obvious reactions. At this time, the classmates who make fun of him will think it is very funny and may push their luck. So what is better to do at this time? In fact, the best way is to do nothing. Parents can tell their children that classmates are joking, in fact, they want to attract your attention. If you ignore him, he won't get the result he wants. He didn't think it was funny. Slowly, he will stop joking. However, it is actually very difficult to do this.

Children need to get out of their emotions as soon as possible.

Children in primary and secondary schools are prone to fall into deep emotions when they encounter some things. At the moment, many parents think that children are not sensible, but in fact, at this time, children are only temporarily controlled by emotions. No matter what parents say, children can't pay full attention to it. Therefore, parents need to calm their children down first, for example, telling them that he can still understand him and let them describe their current emotions, which can also make them shift from emotional venting to the mode of objectively describing emotions, so that their emotions will gradually dissipate. Let children often carry out such training, and gradually, children can control their emotions when they are alone.

Pay attention to cultivate children's achievement motivation and divert their attention.

Parents can also rely on their children's interests to shape their achievement motivation. When their children improve to a certain extent, parents will immediately give feedback, so that their children will feel responsible and will continue to explore new difficult factors. In such a link, children's hobbies here are getting deeper and deeper, and they get a sense of accomplishment from it, thus enhancing their self-confidence, so it is not easy to take other people's opinions as the standard for evaluating themselves.

Everyone is basically an independent individual with characteristics. Children don't need to live in everyone's eyes and do what they want. Of course, they will also have a similar WeChat circle of friends. When they encounter problems, they can ask for help. Many situations may no longer be considered as problems, and children's attention will return to hobbies or learning. Everyone is laughed at, even the top students with excellent grades, some students secretly envy them and then look for defects. If what others say is really a problem, it needs to be corrected as soon as possible. At the same time, we should constantly improve children's self-confidence and learn how to judge others effectively. Everyone has a long board, so don't care too much about others' ridicule.