What effect does parental rivalry have on children's growth?

Introduction: Sometimes parents always want to know who is the most important in their children's minds and always give them some questions, such as "which is better, father or mother". How does parental rivalry affect children's growth?

This behavior of parents will make children think carefully when answering questions. Sometimes children feel that answering such questions may be bad for each other. Then children will become more utilitarian. For example, a child will feel that if he says his father is good in front of him, then his father will be happier and buy more things for himself. Similarly, if you greet your mother in front of her, her mother will agree to her request. At this time, the child is actually in a state of pleasing both sides. And children will also use this psychology to achieve their own goals, such as buying more toys or getting more money. Under such circumstances, children may not particularly respect their parents, because parents are in a state of competing with themselves, and children may feel that they are still the most precious and precious in the family, so everything is self-centered. In this way, children may become arrogant, which is very unfavorable to their growth.

Parents should educate their children in appropriate ways. If they can't correct their attitude and get scientific education from their parents, they will encounter all kinds of problems. For children, if there is always some contradictory education in daily life, children will also have confusion of thinking. Therefore, parents must adopt appropriate methods and attitudes in the process of educating their children so that their children can grow up better. For children, if parents always hold themselves too high, then there will be some deviations in their growth.