How to face the ridicule of family members?

There are two kinds of ridicule: malicious ridicule and well-meaning ridicule. I think the teasing of family members is generally well-intentioned teasing. Your family may think you are too ambitious and motivate you with sarcastic words. This kind of ridicule is the concern of your family, so you don't need to mind too much.

First, your family's kind ridicule!

Many parents hate iron and don't produce steel, and they will inspire their children with ridicule. For example, if their children don't study well, parents will say, you can't do it if your child gets the first place in the exam, when will you get it back, and so on.

Although it is wrong for your family to mock you like this, they are not malicious. They just want you to work hard and make progress, and don't live a hard life in the future.

I remember that I didn't pass the middle school entrance examination in the first year. I was very sad. I dare not go out to meet people every day because I am afraid of being asked about my grades. If I don't pass the exam, I will be laughed at by others.

That's because my parents laughed at me and said, "If you don't get in one year, you will get in the next year, and you won't get in every year like this 100." At that time, I thought it was a mockery of my family. I'm already sad. They are still cynical and have not comforted me. I was really angry, but at the same time I was angry, which inspired my fighting spirit. I decided to repeat my studies for one year. I don't believe that I will never pass the exam.

In fact, in hindsight, this should be an alternative concern of parents for their children. Although what they said is very irritating, it still has a certain effect!

Second, the malicious ridicule of your family!

It is really unforgivable that such ridicule happened to family members. I have a feeling of watching your jokes and rubbing salt on your wounds. I hate such people, too. They don't deserve to be my family.

I remember when I just got divorced, I had no job and no financial resources, and I lived with my children at my mother's house. At this time, I will inevitably meet some relatives to visit me at home.

I remember that once my uncle came and somehow mentioned my story. What he said really made me sad. He said: "I slept with others for more than a year and wanted a child without asking for anything." After listening to this sentence, I really want to scold back, but more is sad. Divorce is not my fault. Why do you want to say these words to hurt me?

Facing such ridicule from my family hurts me more than divorce. They don't know how much pain I feel. This will only expose my scars.

But what can I do? It is my family. I can only work hard silently. One day, I will use my strength to prove that all of you can't suppress me, and I will fight for my future.