Would it be disgusting for a girl to chase a boy backwards? Girls should never chase a boy backwards.

As the saying goes: "When a man chases a girl, there is a mountain between them; when a woman chases a man, there is a veil between them."

Everyone thinks that the success rate of girls chasing boys is extremely high. Nowadays, Society is becoming more and more open-minded. We no longer want girls to be as reserved and tactful as they were before the reform and opening up. To encourage girls to see the person they like, they don’t have to wait for the boy to take the initiative. They can also pursue him backwards.

In the face of love, no specific party takes the initiative. Therefore, in such a social environment, many girls are willing to muster the courage to start their own path to pursue the boy they like.

So, what happened to the girls who chose to pursue them in the end?

There was once a topic on Weibo about girls chasing after each other. I hope girls will talk about their own experiences of chasing after someone. The number one hot comment was actually: "It's a good story if you catch someone, but it's a joke if you don't."

Many girls said that they had chased after each other in love, and some of them succeeded in catching up, and We are still together today.

But one of the girls’ comments received a lot of likes. She said: When we were together, the boy didn’t love her, but because he happened to be single, he agreed to the girl’s pursuit.

When the two people really got together, the man was really not interested in the girl, and finally separated. The fundamental reason for this outcome is the difference in thinking between men and women. Differences in thinking

Boys’ thinking is very simple. They are animals that are driven by impulse and are heavily influenced by the scene. Girls can accept this emotion when a specific atmosphere drives their hearts. Therefore, boys do not You can be together if you like.

But most girls are emotional and find it difficult to make compromises, especially when it comes to issues between men and women. As long as they are determined, they will plunge into it head-on, even if they end up bruised and bruised.

So in real life, girls are more likely to be injured. Because many girls have loved reading novels and TV series since they were young, they will be deeply moved by the scenes in the TV series where the heroine pursues the hero and ends up living happily together.

While watching the drama, they will also bring themselves into the drama, transforming themselves into the heroine herself, allowing their emotions to fluctuate with the heroine.

When they grow up, they are also deeply influenced by these plots, and they firmly believe that as long as they are devoted to the male protagonist like the heroine in the TV series, they will eventually be favored by the person they like.

So, they try every means to express their love to the people they like, occupy seats for them, buy them breakfast, and even create opportunities to be alone at all costs.

Some people finally got their favorite partner as they wished. The man got together because he was moved or happened to be single. However, there was always an unequal relationship in love. The woman always thought of the man, but The man will not think of the woman at all.

In the end, the woman is too tired in the relationship or the man has no interest in continuing to play, and eventually they end up strangers. And some people, from beginning to end, can only play the game of "wishful thinking and acceptance of defeat".

In the eyes of boys, what they do is not "sweet", but a kind of low-esteem behavior. They will form an inner understanding of girls and feel that girls can do anything to chase boys. If you reach this point, you will definitely become even crazier for the next goal.

People are so unreasonable sometimes. They want what they can’t get even more, but they are confident about being favored. Once a girl’s behavior of chasing after someone at a lower price increases a boy’s self-worth, then they will even less agree to it. Never lose your bottom line

Among idol dramas, the most famous girl chasing after her is "Mischief Kiss". The female protagonist is a very ordinary girl, while the male protagonist is a genius with an IQ of 200. The two people are not compatible, but in the end they come together because of the female protagonist's pursuit.

Although the heroine in the play is chasing after her, on the way, when she thinks that the male protagonist does not like her, she first chooses to protect her personal dignity and chooses to give up. This is not a chasing after losing her bottom line. .

Moreover, in order to make up for the gap between the two, she is constantly optimizing herself so that she can catch up with outstanding boys.

Therefore, it is indeed possible for a girl to find true love by pursuing her, but the premise must be based on maintaining self-esteem. Even if you like this boy again, you should tell him about yourself in the process of expressing your love to him. boundaries to prevent the other party from acting recklessly.

Such a cheap pursuit may have taken all your strength and made love painful for you, but in the end you could only be moved by yourself.

Girls who can really succeed in chasing after each other often find it difficult to grasp the scale of chasing after them. They can sincerely show their charm in front of boys, making boys dislike them at the beginning and pay attention to them in every possible way in the end.

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References:

Tomkins, Silvan S. (1962/1991), Affect Imagery Consciousness. New York: Springer.

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