Do you believe the big lies that my mother-in-law often tells after marriage?

Some people say that the most difficult thing in the world is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. How do you get along with your mother-in-law relationship? Friends? Elder? Let's take a look at the seven lies that my mother-in-law often tells to prepare you mentally.

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First, I will treat you as my own daughter.

How many girls are kind to their mother-in-law because of this sentence? As a result, it turns out that this is just a joke. You are more like a prostitute. After all, you are not the meat that fell from her.

Second, having a baby is the same as having a girl. Our family prefers boys to girls.

Finally gave birth to a son: you see, I calculated it for you, and I said you must have a son. I report good news to my relatives and friends everywhere. We have a great-grandson in our family. Finally, I gave birth to a daughter: the daughter is good, the boss is a daughter, and later I know that I hurt my brother; When your daughter is older, she will urge you to have a second child all day.

Third, I don't interfere with children's education.

As a result, you will find that in family education, the mother-in-law is always the person who holds you back the most. Children can't beat and scold, can't train, can't suffer, can't travel, can't be tired. Whenever it comes to educating children, my mother-in-law always makes amazing remarks.

Fourth, don't be partial to anyone at home, and a bowl of water is flat.

There are many brothers and sisters in the family, and my mother-in-law will always say that she will not be eccentric, and the palms of her hands are all meat, and she will be treated equally. As a result, you will find that your husband will always be the one who pays the most money among the brothers, and you will always be the most filial but the worst person in the sister-in-law.

5. Daughter-in-law has the same pain as her son.

One-child family, after marriage, mother-in-law said: We had a son before, now we have one more, and we will be a family in the future. As a result, when you are at home, it will always be porridge+vegetables; When her son is at home, there is always a hard dish on the table. You do the dishes, of course she does. When her son washes the dishes, she will say, you go to rest, I'll do it.

6. I will take care of your baby when you give birth.

Many girls don't want to have children so early when they first get married, some because they want to stay alone for two years; Some people worry that having children will affect their work. At this time, my mother-in-law came to say: Don't worry, you will have a baby. What should I do after giving birth? I will take care of the children for you. And the result? When the child is born, the mother-in-law will say: I have a terrible backache recently and can't hold the child; I haven't retired yet. Why not watch it for two years? It is better for children to eat breast milk. Who will feed the children when you go to work? I have to take care of my own children. My mother-in-law didn't help me at all when I gave birth. Listen, your mother retired. Let your mother take care of the children.

All the money we earn will be yours in the future.

If your husband is an only child, you will certainly hear that the money earned by your parents-in-law is yours. Whenever someone or my mother-in-law says this to me, I feel very depressed. We have the ability to earn money to support ourselves, and we don't want to get nothing substantial, and we have to bear the reputation of gnawing at the old.

Many times we need to put ourselves in others' shoes. If you become a mother-in-law, will you be better than your current mother-in-law? It is necessary to take care of yourself. I hope you have more tolerance and understanding of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and give more care to each other.