How did the ancients regulate the life of husband and wife by law?

? How did the ancients regulate the life of husband and wife by law?

How to standardize the sexual life of husband and wife in the Book of Rites?

In fact, in ancient times, husband and wife shared the same room. A gift from Duke Zhou? There are six rules.

All sexual activities must be done in bed.

(2) A man must have sex with all his women (wives).

Wives must have sex with her every five days before they are fifty.

(4) and I * * *, I want to leave at once, don't accompany the night.

(5) It took more than three months for the funeral to be with his wives.

6. After the husband is 60 years old, he can't have a wife and concubine.

See how it is recorded in Laughter in the Woods. This is a collection of popular jokes, with nearly a thousand jokes, most of which were produced in the Song Dynasty and widely circulated in the Ming and Qing Dynasties. The paragraphs about husband and wife's life in boudoir and other volumes reflect the ancient people's understanding of marriage, childbirth and sex, and also have similarities with modern scientific knowledge for reference.

It is not advisable for an old man to marry fewer wives.

In Laughing Forest, most jokes about an old man with few wives reflect that this kind of couple's sexual life is rarely harmonious or their fertility is poor. Like a flat thing: an old man married a young woman, which is a cloud between clouds and rain. May you have a son. ? The woman said:? I can't raise my son, so I have to raise a tuanyu. ? The husband asked him why and replied:? How can you keep a flat (turtle) thing like you instead of a grouper? ?

This little joke reflects that the old man is senile, and sexual intercourse is as difficult as the sexual needs of the young wife. The embarrassment of sexual life will naturally arise. Although the old man has sex with the young woman, there is no guarantee that he will have healthy offspring. Older women who look like flat things are not as good as young adults, which is not conducive to eugenics. Today, there are still some young girls who are willing to marry old people who are similar in age to their parents and grandparents for money. Such an old man with few wives will not only harm himself in the disharmony of sexual life, but also harm the offspring with low quality. It can be seen that it is not advisable for an old man to marry less!

Polygamy is difficult to settle down at home.

At that time, in the jokes about polygamy in "The Reflection of Laughing Forest", it was often that wives and concubines were jealous and had sex for trivial matters. If the heart is here: the person who buys a concubine has fun with his wife, and the wife says: You are here and your heart is there. ? Husband:? If so, what if I am there and my heart is here? ?

Polygamy is one of the main reasons why there was no peace in ancient times. Now, someone is getting rich and raising? Mistress? Or having an affair. Polygamy? Wife? Look up again. Although the family dare not marry, but? De facto marriage? Intervention or the root of family conflicts, even leading to family? War? . Most of the victims were women. Noisy, fighting, taking poison, killing, revenge, will make chickens and dogs restless. It often ends in tragedy.

I don't know how to avoid it

In Laughing Forest, people laugh at the ironic joke that couples have sex without avoiding their children. Such as freezing: the couple are sleeping soundly by their children and feel sympathy at will. When you're done, ask your wife how she is. After asking a few questions, their wives got in the way and the children were at their feet. Mom, hurry up, I'm freezing. ? Another angry son: the husband and wife will do something, because the two sons are around, I wonder if they are asleep. So let's give it a try. The two sons didn't listen and knew they were going to do this. It is a masterpiece of sex and rain. Its mother is very happy and the class is dying. A son suddenly laughed, and his mother was ashamed and sour. The other son said:? Well played, well played. Mom didn't cry when she died, but smiled. ?

It can be seen that husband and wife should not only avoid children, but also share rooms, so as to ensure that husband and wife can relax in a quiet environment and enjoy the happiness of * * *, and also protect the normal psychological development of children. Today's couples should learn from it.

* * * it's not strange to be out of tune.

When couples have sex, they often say something discouraging or complaining, which will hurt each other's emotions, thus affecting each other's physiology, making sex life difficult and the couple's feelings uncomfortable. At this point, Xiaolin has a hint. Husband and wife should encourage and praise each other. Discouragement and complaining are taboos in husband and wife life. Fanmi: the poor marry a wife, and the wife says: How happy are you without rice and rice? ? The relationship between husband and wife is sluggish. Wife goes back to the cloud:? Having said that, it is enough to eat at the altar tomorrow and the day after tomorrow. ? When making love, talking about the shortage of salt, oil, firewood and rice, a discouraging remark made her husband have no interest in sex. It's not a good time.

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Old couple: An old man wanted to get married, but his mother refused to marry him when she saw that his hair and beard were all white. The old man bribed the matchmaker and said, If he has something to do every night, if he fails overnight, he is willing to blame himself five times. ? Mom agreed, and I worked hard at the door for a while. I can't move the next night. Mother pushed the old son down, blaming the five boards, and the old son couldn't afford to lie down. Mother asked why, and the old man said with a smile, I begged my mother to fight for the whole hundred, and we settled accounts together. ? Although the joke is exaggerated, the reader can see that his wife is not encouraging her husband to act, but hitting him. The old lady has been dissuading her, asking for 100 yuan and paying her debts later. The sexual life of middle-aged and elderly people is certainly not better than that of young people. There should be more relief and struggle between husband and wife, not discouragement, anger and noise. Only by understanding each other can there be happiness and happiness.