After ten years of marriage, I found that my son was not my own. What should I do?

After ten years of marriage, it is unacceptable and extremely painful for anyone to find that the child is not his own. As for divorce, I think you should not be too impulsive. You should know the ins and outs of the matter first, and know the truth of the matter, depending on the situation.

Here are some suggestions.

First of all, you and your wife sit down and talk calmly and find out the ins and outs of the matter. If your wife has a child behind your back, and it is entirely her fault, you can file for divorce and ask her to give you reasonable compensation and get back the alimony for the past ten years. As for whether or not to divorce, it depends on how you feel about your wife and children. In that case, I think you should get a divorce.

Second, if it is because your wife took the child away by mistake during the hospital delivery, because of the mistake of the hospital. So there is no need to divorce, because it is not your wife who is at fault, she is also a victim. You should comfort her and work hard with Qi Xin to find your child.

Third, a child who has been raised for ten years must have deep feelings. Don't hurt the child under any circumstances. On this issue, children are the most innocent. Ten-year-olds are not sensible. Please protect the child's feelings, even if she is not your own child, you should not hurt her. The fault lies with adults and mothers, and children have no ability to make choices.

If you love your wife very much, you can also consider forgiving her and continue to live together after knowing the whole thing.

Therefore, never getting divorced depends entirely on how deeply you feel for your wife and how much you can tolerate her.

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