When getting along with others, you should pay attention to the boundaries and propriety of communication. No matter how boring you are, whose homes should you not visit?

When getting along with others, you must pay attention to the boundaries and propriety of communication. No matter how boring you are, whose homes should you not visit?

Human beings are born to live in groups and have to socialize with others. If you stay alone for a long time, you will feel bored and you can't help but want to participate in some bustling occasions. Visiting relatives is a normal thing. Whether during the Chinese New Year or in daily life, there will be some daily interpersonal communication and interaction. When the relationship between the two parties becomes close, they will visit each other to enhance the friendship between the two parties.

For close friends and relatives, visiting each other can increase their feelings for each other, get involved in each other's families, and understand each other more deeply, understand each other's families, and enjoy themselves to the fullest. It is warm and there will be no superfluous mentality.

But for some relationships, visiting each other is not only not conducive to the harmony of the relationship, but can even lead to feelings of jealousy, and there may also be some gossip. For example, friends, next-door neighbors, or people who know each other through some special fate and do not have a deep love for each other. In such a relationship, visiting someone else's home may not be the wisest choice.

When interacting with others, we must pay attention to the boundaries and sense of propriety in communication, and set corresponding limits based on the relationship between each other. This is a topic we all need to learn. No matter how boring you are, don't visit the homes of these three types of people. It is a kind of annoyance to others, a waste to yourself, and is worthless. 01 Don’t visit the homes of colleagues with whom you have a casual relationship

Friends are the most familiar strangers. They are the fate formed in a certain environment. In the small space of the work unit, it is inevitable that we will meet each other. We get along for a while, but many people’s communication is limited to work. Once you leave the office environment, you are just strangers.

The relationship between many colleagues is actually so superficial. Although they look up and see each other every day, in fact they only maintain the civility and politeness that adults should have, say hello when they meet, and sometimes have some communication. But it can’t be a relationship where we still keep in touch after get off work.

After get off work, they go back to their respective homes and do not contact each other. They have their own social circles and do not disturb each other when they leave the office environment. The company will also arrange some team development activities, and there will be dinner parties among colleagues. Considering the boss's face, they will not refuse the invitation if they are too embarrassed. They will be polite to each other. Once they leave the group, there will be very little communication in private.

Of course some friends will become very good friends. They will go shopping together on weekdays and visit each other’s homes. In this relationship, you don’t have to worry too much between you. , you can come and go at will. But if your relationship is limited to casual friends, don't visit the other person's home easily. Because the home is a relatively private indoor space, many people do not want others to get involved.

Even if some of your colleagues are causing trouble, you still need to be aware of others. You may not be among those they want to invite. Your sudden addition will only make you compact and make the other party feel dissatisfied. It is better to have a sense of propriety. According to your relationship, get along appropriately and don't cross the boundary. This is the sense of propriety that every adult should have. 02 Don’t visit the homes of relatives whose family conditions are very different.

There are many relationships that are not chosen by us, but are forced to persist due to the intertwining of fate. For example, family and friends are the timing after all. We have no choice at all. They depend on each other from birth. Many relatives and friends are not the same person at all, but are connected together. It is impossible to separate completely, but it is also difficult to have a deep friendship, so just maintain the most basic civility and courtesy. Except for forced visits and investigations during the Chinese New Year, there is no need for in-depth interactions on weekdays, just live your own life.

In fact, it is difficult for relatives whose family conditions are very different to be truly intimate. We are not from the same world at all. Frequent interactions can only breed jealousy and a desire to show off. Seeing others living better than you can make you overflowing with jealousy. At the same time, there will also be some relatives and friends who like to compare and show off. They express their wealth both inside and outside their words and show their neglect of you. .

And those relatives who are not living as well as you may try their best to benefit from you, take the opportunity to express their embarrassment, and want to find some convenience from you.

Don't go to the homes of relatives whose family conditions are very different. Since you are not on the same road, you don't have to pretend to be intimate. Showing intimacy, but privately showing off and jealousy, such a relationship is not necessary. 03 Don’t visit the homes of “friends” who don’t treat you sincerely

We will find that these people who don’t like you are often the people closest to you. The same is true for some so-called “friends”. Some people pretend to have a good relationship with you on the surface, but in fact they don’t treat you as a true friend at all. If you tell them some secrets, they may just listen to it as a joke. If you complain to them about the unsatisfactory work or marital life, they may secretly laugh in their hearts. They no longer want you to live well.

Some people may be lonely and have no one with whom they can really have a close relationship. Therefore, they clearly know that some people are no longer worth getting along with, but they still maintain basic interactions and feel that there is someone with them. It is also good to wait. In fact, this kind of relationship is just a drain on you in the final analysis. It looks the same on the surface but has ulterior motives in private. Isn't it tiring to get along with this kind of relationship?

A good friend who doesn’t treat you sincerely doesn’t need sex, and he may hurt you one day. It is better to be alone than to be alone. Choosing friends and lovers is the same. Don't settle for nothing, don't settle for nothing. Don't go to the house of a friend who is pretending to be in love. He may not welcome you, and your arrival will only make him feel bored.

Being a human being requires a sense of propriety and limits. We must identify and distinguish the people around us, and interact accordingly based on the relationship between each other. Sincere friends can interact with each other at will without any considerations. Visiting each other's homes will help the relationship become closer and closer. But if everyone has a normal relationship, such behavior as dropping in can only cause trouble to others.

When facing the above three types of people, you should pay attention to one thing. Friends can only be casual acquaintances. Relatives and friends can just walk around during the Chinese New Year. If they are not true friends, break off the friendship when it is time. Don’t make friends casually just because you are lonely. . Don't choose random friends just because you're lonely, don't do some annoying things just because you're bored, be a little wiser.