What will you do if your friend always speaks ill of the person you like behind your back?

I will make it clear to my friend that she should stop speaking ill of me.

1, communicate and explain. If this person is your good friend, or someone who is very important to you, you must communicate with this friend and find out if you have done something wrong to make her have such a bad opinion. If necessary, apologize for your behavior, so as to save this friendship.

If it's not your fault, ask that person. I hope you don't speak ill of yourself behind your back. If you have any questions, you can say them to your face. If you want to remain friends with her, you can tolerate it, and you can choose to forgive it. On the contrary, you can break off diplomatic relations, because this kind of backbiting has betrayed this friendship and caused you harm, so don't do it.

2. Ignore it directly. If someone who is irrelevant or unimportant speaks ill of you behind your back, you can choose to ignore it directly without causing great influence on yourself. Because more is better than less. This kind of person doesn't matter. Ignore her. People who really know you and love you will know what kind of person you are and will not change their views on you because of hearsay.

In fact, this is also beneficial. Those who really want to be friends with you will be screened out, take the initiative to be friends with you, and those who don't want to be friends with you will be treated as they are.

Moreover, some of them are good at saying bad things behind their backs, which belongs to their own quality and moral problems, and sometimes incite or cause much trouble for a dirty purpose; Sometimes I am jealous of other people's actions, and I can't reach the realm of others, but I say some bad things that are quite different from reality.

Some people who say bad things are an echo, that is, what they said was "unintentional", even an emotional tendency and aimless emotion at that time. As a person, no matter whether you are perfect or not, people will speak ill of you.

In this way, we can only maintain our own beauty to the greatest extent, let the bad things behind us go unchecked, and change them if there are. Those who are clear are self-cleaning, while those who are turbid are self-cleaning. You just need to do your own thing, find your own goals and study hard. God gives you a good chance to study alone, and you can avoid wasting most useless social activities.