Why do some people think that people with depression are pretending?

Because in their view, there are no obstacles in life, and people with depression just don't know how to vent their emotions.

In real life, everyone needs to bear their own pressure. Some people can turn pressure into motivation and face life in a better state, but some people can't bear the pressure of life and even suffer from depression.

For people who can adjust their emotions, people with depression are just pretending. Maybe it's because they were happy since childhood, maybe it's because they found a way to vent their emotions in their lives. These people can always keep themselves from being depressed and calm.

For their lives, depression is impossible, and those so-called depressed patients are just coquettish and artificial, and their hearts are not strong enough to bear the pressure from life and can't alleviate the negative emotions in life.

They always believe that as long as those people learn to deal with negative emotions, the so-called depression will definitely get better.

It is not easy to judge depression. Personally, I don't believe in the current judgment method. Adults in real life, everyone bears a heavy responsibility, of course, so do I.

Some time ago, a friend said he was depressed. I should belong to the kind of person who thinks he is acting. Then he asked for leave to go to the hospital for examination. It is said that he also spent hundreds of dollars on some questionnaires, and then came back to tell me that the diagnosis was mild depression.

Out of curiosity, I searched online for various methods and questionnaires to judge whether I was depressed or not. After self-judgment, I think I should be severely depressed. But the problem is that I don't feel pressure in my life, and I don't want to escape or hurt myself.

Many psychological problems are caused by stress in real life. Maybe we should learn to find a suitable way to solve the pressure, so that life will not be so tired.

Try to be optimistic and cheerful. You should be a strong person in your own spiritual world.