The harm of cheating on your husband

1. How much harm does a wife's derailment do to her husband? 1. Trust is the foundation of a destroyed marriage. Once the trust is destroyed, the marriage without trust is full of doubts and contradictions, and the marriage begins to shake. 2. The concept of love is destroyed. I was full of embarrassment about marriage. I worked hard towards the goal and kept paying, but what I got was her betrayal. At that moment, the grievances, unwillingness, sadness and disappointment that welled up in my heart made people feel that they were so unworthy, and this love was incomplete. 3. Insecurity After she changes her mind, she will wonder whether she doesn't love herself as much as before, whether she really returns home, whether she likes another man, and whether she still keeps in touch with a third party. Without a sense of security, you will constantly think of his infidelity and relive painful memories. 4. The experience of love is totally negative. Many times, after a woman has an affair, a man will realize it, because a woman doesn't love herself! Therefore, even if I forgive her, I will constantly remind myself that she no longer loves herself. Can she fall in love with herself again now? Can marriage be happy? She hasn't really changed. When a woman comes home, a man naively thinks that she loves herself and is unwilling to divorce, and also believes that she will make changes for herself. So the expectation of her has also increased, but no, she didn't show more love to you, nor did she show more tenderness and consideration. Therefore, I always feel that his change of heart is just a form. 2. How hard is it to forgive an unfaithful wife? Most men think that it is common for men to drink outside, so if women have problems in this respect, there will be unacceptable phenomena. Such a man must say that he is selfish and cannot deal with any problems in marriage with a rational attitude. People who only know how to complain will not only feel uncomfortable with him, but also suffer a lot of harm. On the other hand, we should pay attention to female friends, not only our own marriage, but also our male friends. If you don't respect and value your marriage, it is likely to bring problems to your marriage. Sometimes the wife will choose ghosts, which actually has a lot to do with you. If you say that you don't respect your marriage, your marriage is hard to understand. The harm of cheating husband 2 What is the influence of cheating husband after marriage? A husband who cheats after marriage will have at least the following three effects: doubts about her personal charm, cracks in sexual relations, and husbands may also have the idea of cheating. These three effects are very realistic. First of all, the infidelity of the wife after marriage means the disillusionment of the man's self-esteem. If he can satisfy his wife and make her happy, why did he cheat? Therefore, men will begin to doubt their personal charm. Secondly, the relationship between the two sexes will start to crack because of this derailment. If it is not repaired in time, it may cause big problems. Finally, in marriage, one person's infidelity may cause another person's anger, and more people will choose the same way. Revenge on this marriage gives the husband a good reason to have unfaithful thoughts. After the wife caught her husband cheating, the other party could say so. Doubt about personal charm sounds trivial, but you just want to be a great blow to a man. His wife cheated on her after marriage. Why? Mostly because the husband can't satisfy his wife or the husband can't bring her happiness. This is the most unacceptable thing for men, who will appear incompetent and then doubt their personal charm, which is undoubtedly the biggest blow. The relationship between men and women began to crack. Cheating after marriage will have an irreversible impact on the relationship between men and women, and the relationship between men and women will begin to break down, which is manifested in the husband's suspicion of his wife. Even after the relationship is repaired, it is impossible for him to return to his former appearance, probably for a long time, because at this time, his husband will be on guard and his heart will be on guard everywhere. Secondly, his wife will feel very uncomfortable. Over time, the two people will have some friction and unhappiness, which will further intensify and escalate. A seemingly random cheating behavior after marriage will actually bring great disaster to her husband and even this marriage. Husband has the idea of cheating. What many women don't realize is that in marriage, both of them have a silent principle, that is, they can't betray each other. When one person breaks this balance, another person naturally has the right to break this balance. It can't be said that only state officials can set fire to prohibit people from lighting. Therefore, in the later life, my husband may use this as an excuse to keep cheating and break through his wife's bottom line, just because his wife's cheating gives him a reason to use the topic first. Over time, women will feel angry and have been suffering, blaming themselves for maintaining this marriage, but this is actually the evil result of their own planting. The harm of cheating on her husband is 3 1, losing face and trampling on dignity. Men value face and dignity most. Even if he has no position at home, he hopes to give him enough face in front of outsiders. Men have strong self-esteem and possessiveness, and their women can only be their own. They can never share it with others. Once his woman cheats, facing the finger pointing of outsiders, watching his jokes, laughing at his incompetence and not keeping his woman, all these make men feel frustrated, humiliated, humiliated and trampled. Therefore, from the moment a woman cheats, a man's dignity and face have been severely trampled on the ground. In order to save that poor dignity, even if you tell others that you cheated, you won't say that your woman cheated. 2. Psychological shadow and physical injury. Women's infidelity brings indelible harm to men's psychology and physiology. Some of them suffer from depression and live in the shadow of betrayal all their lives. In the face of women's betrayal, men will have angry emotions and excessive behavior. I even doubt my ability, whether I didn't give a woman the life she wanted, whether I didn't satisfy her desire, or why she cheated others. I have to face other people's comments. Mental torture is painful when others often say that his woman is cheating, but they are unable to refute it. Every night is either insomnia or nightmares. It's painful to fantasize about your woman cheating on you all day and touching other women. After a long time, it will inevitably affect his physical and mental state and make him physically and mentally exhausted. Men are strong on the surface and fragile on the inside, unlike women who can find someone to complain about when they are injured. When a man is hurt, he will silently endure the injustice alone. Because they don't want others to see his fragile side, let alone his own woman cheating. 3, full of disappointment in marriage, work hard before losing confidence in life, make money hard, live a better life for family and children, and save money. Women and children are men's persistent beliefs. However, if a woman cheats, her faith will collapse, and she will lose the belief of persistence and hard work, and there will be no reason to continue. If you divorce, you will lose hope for life, be unable to get out of a sad marriage, lose interest in your job and feel that nothing matters. Drinking all day to drown my sorrows, I became more and more depressed, and the whole person was very confused, and even started to bring disgrace to oneself. After a long time, depression is mild, but it's hard to get over it and have suicidal thoughts. 4, revenge, make excessive behavior. Some men can't accept their women's infidelity, feel humiliated, their dignity is swept away, and they lose their minds, which leads to revenge. This is very terrible, people will die easily. People will do things under anger and impulse, regardless of any result, as long as they have the pleasure of revenge for a while. For example, in the news, there are examples of fighting with derailed objects, self-mutilation and hurting wives, which happen repeatedly every year. Either way, you will not only get hurt yourself, but also have a bad influence on your relatives around you. Even for this reason, you may embark on the road of crime and be completely destroyed in the second half of your life. Nowadays, women are independent, open and dare to pursue what they want. They want romance and excitement more than boring marriage life, so they are more likely to cheat. No one will deprive a person of the right to pursue beautiful love, but please end the previous relationship before pursuing beautiful love, and don't use the trust of the other person to hurt a man who loves you deeply. Your infidelity and betrayal may push the other person to the abyss and push him to the end of despair. If you love, please love deeply, if you don't love, please part as soon as possible, and don't hurt by betrayal.