What should my daughter do if she is lovelorn?

Daughter is the heart of parents and the closest person to children, but once in love, it can change a person's life. A person needs courage, maturity and wisdom in love. Of course, people in love need love to save themselves. However, breaking up means losing everything. In a relationship, we will feel very happy and sweet, but there will also be many contradictions, especially with children, we will be more worried about the child's lovelorn, worried that the child's popularity is uncontrollable, and let the child lose the most important thing. As parents, how should we face this problem? We can help children face this problem from the following three aspects.

1. Tell your child that breaking up is something everyone will have, not that you can't have feelings.

For this problem, many parents feel that it is impossible to have feelings after lovelorn, and their children will never get married. Actually, this is not right. A love relationship is when two people are together. There is no need to deny love just because two people are together. Even if your boyfriend broke up with you, it was someone else who told you. Even if your boyfriend loves you and your family very much, you can't say that you don't love you after breaking up. This is about two people, not you. We should tell our children to learn to be independent adults. When he is in trouble and needs our support, he can not ask me for help, but he must learn to handle his own problems independently.

2. Let the children understand that if you lose your lover, you will lose yourself. Don't blame yourself too much.

If a love can't make a positive result, it is a failure. This is why two people will eventually break up in this love process. However, when a child is lovelorn, the most sad thing is not the heartbreak, but the regret of this relationship after the heartbreak. At this time, children often blame themselves, and even don't want to face his lover, just want to regret this relationship. However, if he is too egotistical in love, there is nothing he can do. So be sure to let the child know that the failure of feelings is caused by his own reasons, not your problem. He blames himself for his lovelorn love! We want our children to know that being lovelorn means losing yourself, so this relationship can't be repeated. But you can't give up your feelings because of this. Let children understand that lovelorn is a wrong choice, as long as two people are not together to get married, it doesn't matter!

Breaking up doesn't mean that he has nothing in the future, nor does it mean that he doesn't love you.

Although breaking up doesn't mean that he doesn't love you in the future, there is a kind of thinking that will make you feel that he doesn't love you. People will experience many relationships in their life. If you are lucky enough to meet someone you like, please cherish this relationship. This relationship may be bitter because some of your actions contradict him, but only two people will encounter this contradiction, and none of you can change it. Of course, if you both love each other very much, it is ok to break up, just need you to know whether the other person's heart is on you. Love is a beautiful thing, but also a very difficult thing. I hope our daughter can also get rid of the sadness after falling in love!