Straight men and straight women learn how to chat and pay attention to the number of times.

Straight men and straight women are easy to chat with each other. The biggest feature of straight men and straight women chatting is to hit the nail on the head, crisp and neat. If the straight man talks next, you don't know how to reply.

How do straight men and straight women chat?

If you want to do everything in words, you can pay attention to the following points: try to find topics, control the number of times not to find each other too often, learn to stop abruptly, and at the same time cultivate the habit of chatting with the opposite sex, so as to ensure twice the result with half the effort, feel comfortable and have a tendency to chat. "Are you there?" "Yes!" "What are you doing?" "Nothing!" Chat mode is a classic rollover scene for straight men and straight women. It can be said that this is meaningless chat, giving people the desire not to talk, and will stop talking the next second. No one is born with everything, and only after a series of study, exercise and training can he achieve later. Therefore, friends who don't know how to chat can bring them back as long as they master the chat skills!

Pay attention to the number of times and learn to stop.

Don't talk to the other person too often, control the number of times, and learn to stop abruptly, so that the other person is still dissatisfied with your chat. You should know that the topic of chat is limited, and there is no same topic to talk about every day. It is easy to have a lack of balance, and it is not good to talk impatiently every day and contact too frequently. It will also make the other person naturally define you as your own dog licking, which is unattractive and an absolute fall in price behavior, so you should pay attention to the number of chats, and it is best to be moderate, and don't neglect the other person too much and refuse to be attentive. It is recommended to talk once every day or two. At the same time, when chatting, stop talking and learn to observe each other's reactions. If you are happy or interested in chatting, the other party gives positive feedback and replies a lot, and the chat tone is also very pleasant. You will feel reluctant when you are slightly offline and about to stop chatting, and then you can achieve good results. Otherwise, the attention should come to an abrupt end and stop appropriately, so that the other party will not alienate you. In short, if you can grasp the rhythm, you can leave room for the topic every time. I believe that the other party will take the initiative to find you to start the next chat soon.

You can try to find a topic.

When you are about to start a new chat, you can prepare the topic of the chat in advance, but don't be too blunt. Before chatting, learn about each other's hobbies, ways of dealing with people, and personalities of different periods from each other's circle of friends and social circles. People who talk a lot are often interested, and then through the accumulation of experience in different coping styles of people with different personalities, they will officially start chatting when they are relatively well prepared, and the other party will be willing to take care of you. In addition, when chatting, you need to pay attention to discovering and capturing each other's interests. We can observe which topic is answered more, guide it slowly and dig more information. This is a quality chat, both sides will not fall into a state of complete conversation, and at the same time, they can prepare for mutual understanding and the next chat.

Cultivate the habit of chatting with the upright opposite sex

Men and women are different, whether physically or psychologically, they often don't understand each other. If they don't chat with the opposite sex much, they will easily raise their hands and be at a loss. If the other person is the same personality, they will panic instantly. So do many people. They were originally straightforward. If they meet the same frank chat object again and don't change their direction, they will always be on the same parallel line and will never intersect. Try to exercise your habit of chatting, take time out to chat with different upright members of the opposite sex every day, accumulate experience and sum up skills, so that your chat will be natural, not easy to make mistakes and more attractive.